I'm not sure. Might depend on the individuals. ENTPs have the better Fe, but I don't really associate "feeler-y" with that type. Sometimes I wonder if INTPs, with the blindspot of inferior Fe, might overcompensate and learn to feign being better feelers to navigate through social situations, while maybe ENTPs with their higher Fe might have just enough to get by without having to "overdo" it or try too hard.
Again, just vibes, but I would say you seem more INTP than NTJ or NFJ, but then I don't know you that well.
I think I understand what you're trying to say.
Ti doms can be quite principled and they can be very concerned with fairness, not being a type that will consciously want to play favorites with people. Match that up with Ne's ability to see different angles/possibilities/perspectives and the potential to avoid infringing on others' space or boundaries and I can understand why you might come to that conclusion, sort of how INFJs sometimes get labelled as the thinkers of the NF types (albeit for completely different reasons than INTPs might be associated with seeming "feeler-y"). (thinker can be such a biased word in the context of MBTI anyway, as it might imply thinkers think more than feelers--often going hand-in-hand with assumptions that thinkers can't feel). I always cite Data from Star Trek as a great (if exaggerated) example of how INTPs operate. Data is pretty much blind in the area of feels but he has a great capacity to treat all with fairness and little to no bias, so this sort of endears him to his friends as he isn't really "feeling" in a F sense, but he is still doing the best he can with T and N to navigate and operate in a world where feeling is valued. Obviously that can backfire in "sensitive" situations where the INTP perhaps might not have known something they would do or say, while not intentionally malicious, might offend or damage others' feelings or sensibilities. In other words, some situations require a more nuanced feeler's approach/diplomacy which may not be apparent to the INTP unless they've already blundered and learned from a similar past social faux pas. Can you identify with that?
Yes, I could see you being an LII of the Ne subtype in socionics. I think I may have suggested that type to you some time back when you were asking for type help. Again, I don't know you super well, so I'm forced to "vibe" type and I'm not sure how reliable vibe typing has ever been.