type me based on video

[Riva]

This was one interview they showed to indicate Fe facial expressions.

The actress is Olivia Williams. And they typed her as an INFJ in that video they made. They also pointed out common Ni facial expressions (or stares) to conclude that she is an INFJ. Can't remember what those were. I think it's the death-stare. Either Ni users or Se users usually focus their eyes on one particular place for a noticeable amount of time according to them, whereas Si+Ne users have soft gazes. Can't remember much. Don't know why those fellows took the videos off.

She usually plays ETJ characters in movies. I've seen the ghost writer and I am certain she was an ENTJ in it.

 

[Null]

regarding your enneagram type, I pretty muched agreed with e9, but I see you've change that. Not saying I am certain it's wrong, just curious why you changed that. Are you sure with the e6 typing?

I'm honestly not. The thing I've been trying to do is to figure out the motivation behind my actions when trying to type myself. While I do care about harmony and getting along with people, I'm not doing it for the sake of harmony, but for self-protection. I'm trying to get people to accept me, so that I can be sure that they won't attack or threaten me. My focus on harmony gets lost as soon as I'm sure that it won't endanger myself or my relationship with this person.

Apart from that I'm way more in-touch with my feelings, my likes and dislikes, what I want, etc. than 9s are usually, and I generally let people know that. Even in conflicts I feel the need to sort through my feelings first before I can deal with the conflict itself and move on.

Talked about how I relate to 6 and 9 already through pm, if you're interested:

Interesting. I wouldn’t dismiss the idea that I’m constantly trying to make life as least complicated as possible, though. Like I’m putting off doing things hoping they will solve themselves until I can’t avoid them anymore. I’m doing really unimportant stuff that I could be doing any other time to avoid doing what’s really necessary – and I can’t even explain why. Sometimes I think it has to do with the fact that I’m always looking for familiar approaches and solutions to things, and honestly a lot of problems in my life worked out without interference on my side in the past, maybe I just got used to it and turn back to that approach every time I have to do something unpleasant. Not sure if this behavior can be attributed to 9, 6s connection to 9 or type 6 entirely.

You’re right though – I’m actually not this sweet, sweet person. I’m quite humble and friendly, yes, but as you said I’d also consider myself to be reactive and have a mind of my own. I just don’t allow a lot of people to see that, out of the need to protect myself.

If you put it like that, the 9 typing seems more and more unlikely for me. The reason I relate to 6 is at the same time the reason why I relate to Introverted Sensing a lot - there's just so much stuff that could go wrong, that I'd rather not make a decision at all. Even about really mundane things like grocery shopping. The way you describe a 9 here actually seems like a person I wouldn't have a high opinion of.

I have a very generalized fear – it’s always a challenge for me to silence my mind. My mind tends to be working nonstop, to an extend that I usually don‘t act on anything. It’s a precaution to keep me from harm, negative emotional experiences and humiliation. Leads to a lot of doubt and uncertaincy, and may also be why I feel ambivalent toward almost everything. Having conflicting emotions and thoughts is such an incredibly exhausting state to be in. How can you act on something if you can never be sure of anything? Why finish something or commit to something when I can never be sure if that’s what I want at all? These thoughts are keeping my mind busy. One of my core fears is being threatend and one of my tendencies is to interpret other’s behavior as exactly that. If I can be less than I really am, be humble and naive and harmless (although that may not be me at all), they surely won’t feel the need to attack me. It’s all precautions.