I still think you are likely an IFJ based on what you've said earlier (and even your avatar points to F).
I know everyone says to read type descriptions, but this is an extremely poor way to go about it imo. Remember, these descriptions are all going to be generalizations, meaning they vary widely depending on who is describing them and can sometimes be flat out incorrect. I think if you were to ask everyone here, you would find that a majority of people don't fully agree with any one type description.
IMO, I don't know if anyone on this particular forum can help you narrow it down forget than I already have. You have to do some reading and introspection. Look at descriptions of Ni and Si and look at descriptions of S vs. N.
Just know that in reading descriptions of Si, you're going to hear that it is all about "traditionalism," which IMO isn't the case at all. Skip over descriptions that use this terminology.
Thanks! You've been really helpful.
I finally did break down & decided to answer a questionnaire on here, so here it is.
1-what makes you angry?
People that are inconsiderate (like people that don't hold the door for the person behind them, as an example), rude, bossy, critical, don't have a sense of humor, ignorant, too uptight, etc.
2-what do you like/dislike most about people?
I like the support & reassurance people can give, how you can enjoy things with other people & share experiences, how they can show me a good time & make me laugh, etc. What I dislike is when people put too much pressure on me, when people are overbearing, when people disregard my feelings, when people are unhelpful & more interested in themselves, when people misunderstand me or misinterpret what I said, when people have an unnecessary attitude with me, etc.
3-do you like animals? why?
Of course! They're so cute & really interesting too. I'm pretty big on animal rights too & think that people should really cut down on their meat consumption.
4-what do you like most about the favorite people in your life?
They make me feel comfortable, they do a lot & sacrifice a lot for me, they make me feel loved/appreciated, they know how weird I am & like it, etc.
5-what do you like/dislike most about yourself?
That I'm generous, laid back, considerate, free spirited, cheerful, fun, etc. I dislike how obsessive I get about things (probably mbti included), how I let people take advantage of me (like loaning people money), etc.
6-do you care about being fashionable? why/why not?
Yes, I love clothes & fashion, but sometimes I'm really lazy & just decide on more comfy clothes.
7-do you prefer to fit in or stand out?
Both. I want people to like me & be excepted, but I also like to be original & be able to express myself.
8-what activities do you enjoy?
Sports, watching TV, playing/listening to music, going to concerts, traveling, etc.
9-what makes you feel secure?
Being around people that make me feel relaxed enough to be myself, being around good people that make me feel safe, being around people that don't judge me, etc.
10-do you like being in a relationship? why/why not?
I've honestly never dated anyone, so I'm not sure. I never like the guys that ask me out, so I turn them down. Why should I date someone that I don't feel a connection with? Ok, I'll say no then.
11-what do you love and why? Could be people, things, places, etc...
My family, myself, my passions, all the things I put under the activities I like on here, food, humanity, etc.
12-what do you spend the most time thinking about?
Myself & my life (past, present, future), the people I'm around, things I would like to be doing/want to accomplish, shows I like at the moment, etc.
13-How much have you changed over the years? Who were you as a child?
I feel like I'm pretty much the same. I've always been silly, energetic, creative, in my head, sort of a loner, compassionate but still kind of a rebel, etc.
