Help me on this journey to validate my type.

[yeghor]

Sorry, I think I dramatized the title a bit..


Anyways, i'm not quite sure what to display for you, my audience, that will capture your interest. But I appreciate help.

Some people gave me an idea, possibilities of my type, on the welcoming thread I created which has fueled my desire to learn more.

So I am just gonna write down some things about "who I am," because the typical questionnaire is bland and unoriginal.


- I like changing my persona for different people, because I like to see their reactions. I know who I am, but I love playing different roles.

- I'm competitive.. not in an annoying over bearing way, but I also enjoy proving that I am not the average person and that I can be quite impressive. Also, it's A nice way to pass time.

- I am cynical of people, because I have seen how cruel people can be. But I don't tend to show most that side of me, or else they might not feel as welcome

- I used to think I didn't like being the center of attention.. But now, I do! Like I said, I have this thing where I feel like I'm a performer, and others are my audience.

- I'm not sure if this is relevant to my personality type, but pretty much almost everyone I have met who has known me for A bit, has always told me I'm, "Extremely mature and ahead of other people my age."

Which I love, because I don't want to be like anyone else!

- Whenever I'm with others, I tend to be the one that always sticks out.. naturally. In a group of loud people, I'm the calm one. In a group of quiet people, I'm the loud one. This isn't intentional, I don't try..

- When I see A persona in someone that captures my interest, instead of adoring that person, I try and use their persona in my own interesting way.

- I don't want to like someone else more than they like me. That would make me too vulnerable, which would destroy my balance..

- Naturally, I'm an "honest" person. Sometimes too honest, and someone else always tells me, "Why did you DO that?!"
Lies won't help people progress...

- I also love..(Wow, the whole "love" word is being used a lot,) creating new things. Ideas, items, theories on how to solve things. In an original way, or course,

- While I do like being impressive, if someone does not like me, I won't care at all. I already know they are missing out so it isn't really my problem. I'm not going to go out of the way to impress, and I usually don't have to try that hard to be seen as different.

At my core, I'm actually very shy. I think I'm different, and I can easily start thinking about that in a pessimistic manner. I enjoy being smart and try hard to get praise from teachers, and it works.
I think about my future quite A bit, and while it may be unpredictable, I tend to plan out my future and do things that lead to a chain of events , so I have some predictability. I'm quite forgetful, possibly because I'm always so in my head, that I tune out my surroundings. I try to prevent this, but I don't think there's a cure for being A complete day dreamer.
It's getting long. I hope I didn't scare anyone away. Come one, come all, help fill this deep void of unknowingness.

Compare your list to this one:

http://myersbriggspersonalitytypes.tumblr.com/post/49641234357/enfj-traits-the-givers

 

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Compare your list to this one:

http://myersbriggspersonalitytypes.tumblr.com/post/49641234357/enfj-traits-the-givers

Sorry, I replied late x.x

Thanks! I'll take A look at it right now.

 

[HeartBreaker]

Compare your list to this one:

http://myersbriggspersonalitytypes.tumblr.com/post/49641234357/enfj-traits-the-givers

The only ones I disagreed with where...


Optimistic - I'm not.
Happiest when serving others- I'm happiest when serving myself..xD
Expressive and open - I can pretend to be open, but i'm not open about how I REALLY feel.
Gifted at getting others to open up – have the ability to draw out even the most reserved of people - maybe, But I usually do not care to take time to do things like that..

Like to fill their lives with activities and other people – do not like being alone- I like being alone more than being around people.

I agreed with pretty much everything else though. In all honesty My ambitions and goals become before others, I certainly do not put others first.

I'm not really A complete "Giver." I enjoy activities that require logic and feelings, but I highly dislike it when people are forcing me to open up to them, (It happens a lot.) I can be kind, but other people aren't really my concern, most of the time. I still love reflecting images and acting around people though.