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07-22-2008, 02:44 PM #201
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07-22-2008, 02:47 PM #202
Hmm. I hear what you are saying.. what I see here though is twisting as a defence mechanism when Jen feels like she is being personally attacked. She's looking for an escape clause - because her Fe has gone wrong and she's stuck in a discussion and feels uncomfortable.
I don't see many of the posts like that as her enjoying having fun with it. There are a couple like that, but more that are a personal defence mechanism to try and avoid conflict/disagreement.
A classic example is her thanking me for me opinion but then telling me that I'm no good at judging personalities online. There is nothing there other than self defence.
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07-22-2008, 03:00 PM #203
It seems like things are getting a bit more dramatic than they need to.
I think a few people would benefit from stepping back for a moment to put things into perspective.I'm doing science and I'm still alive
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07-22-2008, 03:20 PM #204
:rolli:
This reminds me of one of the first criticisms I made (about you, I believe) when I came to this site, about people being afraid to openly and honestly criticize other people. What I see you doing in this post is using a bunch of vague terms and ideas to help the OP avoid having to deal with and take responsibility for the issues presented in this thread, including her motivation for starting the thread, the way and reasons she has tried to steer the outcome of the poll, and her reluctance to admit any of this and instead pretend like it was all a game, all along. We're all just different people with clashing styles, so no one's responsible for anything, and we can all just ignore what happened.
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07-22-2008, 04:26 PM #205
I believe you do me a disservice.. I very rarely post anything on your blog (no offence..!) and I haven't done so in any such way when I have.
In fact, this was the last of the only four posts I've made to your blog :
http://www.typologycentral.com/forum...tml#post210339
Edit : quoted, for the hard of clicking :
Originally Posted by Geoff giving Jennifer a difficult time ;)
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07-22-2008, 04:33 PM #206
You kids are cute.
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07-22-2008, 04:41 PM #207http://badges.mypersonality.info/badge/0/6/68764.png
Ti Ne Fi Ni
-How beautiful, this pale Endymion hour.
-What are you talking about?
-Endymion, my dear. A beautiful youth possessed by the moon.
-Well, forget about him and get to bed.
-Yes, my dear.
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07-22-2008, 05:35 PM #208Jeffster Illustrates the Artisan Temperament <---- click here
"I like the sigs with quotes in them from other forum members." -- Oberon
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07-22-2008, 05:40 PM #209
Here is a question for the Black Team. What would you say Jen's interaction style is? In-Charge, Chart-The-Course, Get-Things-Going, or Behind-The-Scenes?
Understanding Berens' Interaction StylesMy wife and I made a game to teach kids about nutrition. Please try our game and vote for us to win. (Voting period: July 14 - August 14)
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07-22-2008, 06:31 PM #210
We can take it up in PM.
Just to clarify, I'm a parent; and I am not an enabler by nature; and I get annoyed by enablers. So I support your actions to avoid enabling people; that's admirable.
But since that isn't what I'm doing, and I already expressed some agreement on what Jen was doing, and I think this situation has facets beyond the one you describe, you're rather just reinforcing what I said in my post: You're only approaching this from one direction... which is contributing to the conflict.
PM me if you want to discuss it further.
(If you don't, that's fine too.)
If I misremembered, I'm sorry. (And thanks for your kind response before this one and explaining your side again, I appreciated that.)"Hey Capa -- We're only stardust." ~ "Sunshine"
“Pleasure to me is wonder—the unexplored, the unexpected, the thing that is hidden and the changeless thing that lurks behind superficial mutability. To trace the remote in the immediate; the eternal in the ephemeral; the past in the present; the infinite in the finite; these are to me the springs of delight and beauty.” ~ H.P. Lovecraft
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