I am curious of what type (MBTI and/or Enneatype) a girl is, all based on one conversation, at a party.
Everybody was sitting around a table in the living room. She had been silent all night, and caught my interest due to her thoughtful appearance. I observed her for a while. She eventually noticed me watching her, but still said nothing. I asked her her name, and once most of the other people went to a different room, I asked her several questions, mostly pertaining to her perception of me. It was all just a test. I wanted to see what she would reveal about herself in doing so.
This was our conversation: (I won't include all of it)
Me:"Who am I?"
Her: "I don't have enough information."
Me: "Who am I"? (again)
Her: "I don't have enough information."
Me: "What information do you want?"
Her: "Whatever information you think is most important in defining yourself."
I didn't give her any information.
Her: "Why are you asking me?"
Me: "I am asking you questions about me, because how you answer will tell me things about you."
Her: "And if I don't answer?"
Me: "If I leave tonight without knowing, it will torment me."
Her: "Any answer I give you will be baseless."
I tried to stare into her eyes the entire time. She went along with it for some duration. The conversation took a long time despite how little was said, because she would break eye contact in between questions, and be silent for a while before answering.
Despite her staring into my eyes throughout, she alternated between seeming open and stone-cold.
I felt that there was a lot more going on in her eyes than what her words (didn't?) reveal. Not romantically, necessarily, but it just seemed like there was a lot of depth she was incapable of or unwilling to share, and that's why I care enough to write all of this and ask strangers, I guess.
TL; DR version:
She was aloof, very quiet, and precise and articulate when she actually did speak. Her eyes were very intense.
She did not respond well to my inquiry, and closed off completely at the end of our conversation. For the whole party, she was distant, made no attempt to interact with others, and except when I talked to her, read on her Kindle. She didn't say anything specifically about it, but her tone of voice and body language suggested that she found my questions silly and overly emotional/dramatic.
I'm guessing IXTP, 5(w6?) Sorry if it is too long. What do you think?
Everybody was sitting around a table in the living room. She had been silent all night, and caught my interest due to her thoughtful appearance. I observed her for a while. She eventually noticed me watching her, but still said nothing. I asked her her name, and once most of the other people went to a different room, I asked her several questions, mostly pertaining to her perception of me. It was all just a test. I wanted to see what she would reveal about herself in doing so.
This was our conversation: (I won't include all of it)
Me:"Who am I?"
Her: "I don't have enough information."
Me: "Who am I"? (again)
Her: "I don't have enough information."
Me: "What information do you want?"
Her: "Whatever information you think is most important in defining yourself."
I didn't give her any information.
Her: "Why are you asking me?"
Me: "I am asking you questions about me, because how you answer will tell me things about you."
Her: "And if I don't answer?"
Me: "If I leave tonight without knowing, it will torment me."
Her: "Any answer I give you will be baseless."
I tried to stare into her eyes the entire time. She went along with it for some duration. The conversation took a long time despite how little was said, because she would break eye contact in between questions, and be silent for a while before answering.
Despite her staring into my eyes throughout, she alternated between seeming open and stone-cold.
I felt that there was a lot more going on in her eyes than what her words (didn't?) reveal. Not romantically, necessarily, but it just seemed like there was a lot of depth she was incapable of or unwilling to share, and that's why I care enough to write all of this and ask strangers, I guess.
TL; DR version:
She was aloof, very quiet, and precise and articulate when she actually did speak. Her eyes were very intense.
She did not respond well to my inquiry, and closed off completely at the end of our conversation. For the whole party, she was distant, made no attempt to interact with others, and except when I talked to her, read on her Kindle. She didn't say anything specifically about it, but her tone of voice and body language suggested that she found my questions silly and overly emotional/dramatic.
I'm guessing IXTP, 5(w6?) Sorry if it is too long. What do you think?
