Quote Originally Posted by SilkRoad View Post
When I threaten to cut people out, things are very bad, and when I actually do it, it's either over for good, or they will get back in with great difficulty and not for a long time.
+1 for FP. I may mention an underlying urge to cut someone off to another person I really trust at an early stage of getting fed up, but I definitely don't 'get over' it within hours. Every single little thing that sets off my internal silent alarms about someone (e.g. that I'm being taken for granted) gets noted and I'll grow cold to the person until eventually- if things don't turn around- actually cutting them off. INFJs have a strong tendency to stockpile vague mental notes about things like this. It takes a long time to 'clear the slate' with us.