Not2bforgot10
New member
- Joined
- Sep 12, 2008
- Messages
- 15
- MBTI Type
- xNxJ
I love to analyze. I can read people and situations easily. I am very attuned to power-dynamics. I can read motives. I can structure and organize fairly well and enjoy organizing and reorganizing, putting things into order.
For instance, I have been known to put my cd's in various orders through out the years, from first name to genre, to favorite music, to color of the cd! I am more alphabetical now and definitely my favorites in the front.
When I was younger I used to be really good in math and science. I now enjoy everything, although history is difficult because I am awful with details... I used to be really good at them; I used to be able to memorize license plate #'s!
I am sensitive and artsy. I can also be very analytical though and drive people nuts with insights! Haha...
I am extremely picky about my living environment... it must be clean and organized and efficient. Because of my pickiness, I have a difficult time living with others. I hate clutter, and I HATE inefficiency.
My hobbies are: Reading, Writing, Musical concerts, Listening to music, Spending time on my computer, Flea markets, Collage making, Nature Hikes, Photography, Kayaking, Camping, Canoeing, Movies and drive-ins, Psychology and personal growth workshops, Rollerblading, Fitness, Museums, Bookstores, and Poetry Shares.
What I look for in a mate:
Romantic Partner. Profile:
-A desire to live & maintain a healthy lifestyle (Healthy food, exercise, yoga/meditation, etc).
-Respectful for self (No drugs, smoking, cutting, sex addiction; little to NO alcohol consumption) and others.
-Honest (direct, open) Accountable (Direct & open, and willing to admit wrongs/mistakes made and make an honest, active effort at rectifying the misdeed)
-Loyal. 100% commitment to monogamy --NO promiscuity.
-Attentive. Willing to listen when others share, not distract themselves.
-Reliable/Dependable (Follows-through on agreements).
-Emotionally expressive *Eloquent is a bonus
-Romantic (Expresses & demonstrates feelings & affection)
-Supportive emotionally
-Communication skills
-Great hygiene
-Commitment to personal development
Partner Preferences
-A passion for music
-Shared hobbies & interests (Kayaking, Camping, Concerts, Seminars, Psychology) *Willing to participate in at least 40% of personal hobbies and activities
Relationship Standards
1. Honesty
2. Self Respect
3. Dependability
4. Communication
5. Commitment
My life vision can be broken down into 5 objectives:
Summary… What’s important to me:|
1. To be able to address all of my emotional issues (grief/baggage) and achieve wholeness.
2. To be able to provide for myself and future family
3. To have the flexibility to pursue personal hobbies and interests
4. To be involved in a community that’s progressive— spiritual, environmental-friendly, political/activism, artsy, socially conscious
5. To help create resources for the community and to be able to give back to the community.
And personal values are pretty important to me because I want to be happy and fulfilled in life and be able to accomplish my life "vision" above.
Work-wise:
My ideal work environment would have clear guidelines and organization. The environment would allow for improvement. *It is crucial that within this structured environment, there are ample opportunities for creativity in the form of creative problem solving and innovation.
The organization would offer a competitive salary with excellent benefits. The environment would consist of value-minded colleagues who are mission-driven and committed to maintaining high levels of professional integrity.
There would be minimal supervision (autonomy/freedom would be valued) and ample opportunities for growth and development. Staff development/leadership training would be encouraged.
The position would allow for opportunities to provide structure, teach and model life skills using writing as a facilitation tool. Exercise and tips for living healthy would be encouraged.
Self-expression will be encouraged and skill building aimed at increasing self-esteem and raising self-awareness will be a large part of the work.
Board and council meetings will be conducted several times a month and valued/cherished. Communication will be paramount. Staff development/leadership opportunities will be valued, and opportunities for growth and advancement feasible.
My weaknesses are impatience and demanding/bossiness
Give it your best shot
For instance, I have been known to put my cd's in various orders through out the years, from first name to genre, to favorite music, to color of the cd! I am more alphabetical now and definitely my favorites in the front.
When I was younger I used to be really good in math and science. I now enjoy everything, although history is difficult because I am awful with details... I used to be really good at them; I used to be able to memorize license plate #'s!
I am sensitive and artsy. I can also be very analytical though and drive people nuts with insights! Haha...
I am extremely picky about my living environment... it must be clean and organized and efficient. Because of my pickiness, I have a difficult time living with others. I hate clutter, and I HATE inefficiency.
My hobbies are: Reading, Writing, Musical concerts, Listening to music, Spending time on my computer, Flea markets, Collage making, Nature Hikes, Photography, Kayaking, Camping, Canoeing, Movies and drive-ins, Psychology and personal growth workshops, Rollerblading, Fitness, Museums, Bookstores, and Poetry Shares.
What I look for in a mate:
Romantic Partner. Profile:
-A desire to live & maintain a healthy lifestyle (Healthy food, exercise, yoga/meditation, etc).
-Respectful for self (No drugs, smoking, cutting, sex addiction; little to NO alcohol consumption) and others.
-Honest (direct, open) Accountable (Direct & open, and willing to admit wrongs/mistakes made and make an honest, active effort at rectifying the misdeed)
-Loyal. 100% commitment to monogamy --NO promiscuity.
-Attentive. Willing to listen when others share, not distract themselves.
-Reliable/Dependable (Follows-through on agreements).
-Emotionally expressive *Eloquent is a bonus
-Romantic (Expresses & demonstrates feelings & affection)
-Supportive emotionally
-Communication skills
-Great hygiene
-Commitment to personal development
Partner Preferences
-A passion for music
-Shared hobbies & interests (Kayaking, Camping, Concerts, Seminars, Psychology) *Willing to participate in at least 40% of personal hobbies and activities
Relationship Standards
1. Honesty
2. Self Respect
3. Dependability
4. Communication
5. Commitment
My life vision can be broken down into 5 objectives:
Summary… What’s important to me:|
1. To be able to address all of my emotional issues (grief/baggage) and achieve wholeness.
2. To be able to provide for myself and future family
3. To have the flexibility to pursue personal hobbies and interests
4. To be involved in a community that’s progressive— spiritual, environmental-friendly, political/activism, artsy, socially conscious
5. To help create resources for the community and to be able to give back to the community.
And personal values are pretty important to me because I want to be happy and fulfilled in life and be able to accomplish my life "vision" above.
Work-wise:
My ideal work environment would have clear guidelines and organization. The environment would allow for improvement. *It is crucial that within this structured environment, there are ample opportunities for creativity in the form of creative problem solving and innovation.
The organization would offer a competitive salary with excellent benefits. The environment would consist of value-minded colleagues who are mission-driven and committed to maintaining high levels of professional integrity.
There would be minimal supervision (autonomy/freedom would be valued) and ample opportunities for growth and development. Staff development/leadership training would be encouraged.
The position would allow for opportunities to provide structure, teach and model life skills using writing as a facilitation tool. Exercise and tips for living healthy would be encouraged.
Self-expression will be encouraged and skill building aimed at increasing self-esteem and raising self-awareness will be a large part of the work.
Board and council meetings will be conducted several times a month and valued/cherished. Communication will be paramount. Staff development/leadership opportunities will be valued, and opportunities for growth and advancement feasible.
My weaknesses are impatience and demanding/bossiness
Give it your best shot
