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[Lady_X]

oh god.. yeah, i'd do horrible bullyish things that were so full of just me not wanting to look bad, fearful of being humiliated.. anxious about doing them, but yet diving in and doing the bad deed.

i'd say though that even at my "noblest", i was still a 6. LOL... i think one of my first big childhood fights was a classic example of lashing out at authority in a 6 sort of way. there was a sort of "leader" of our little bike group back then.. he was 2 yrs older than the rest of us, and while we respected him, it grated on me how he belittled us in some ways. oh, and he ALWAYS had to ride ahead of everyone. like it really mattered to him that he was "visually" in the lead.

one day we were fooling around, and i'm not what sparked it off.. but i got tired of him and kicked him off his bike. he got up and we were bouncing around a bit, and then i knocked him on his ass again. pretty much end of story.. the next day was sort of cool though because he bought me tacos and kissed my ass the other "six" thing about this is that i never cared to take the lead of the group myself.

i don't want to get into worse stories.. thought that one was funny though

so...a 6 can appear 8 ish? interesting...you're a 6 then? i test 7w8 but decided i was 7w6 instead...but maybe that's why i test higher on 8....did you test 8 too? i'm sorry if i missed you saying that.

 

[Chloe]

so...a 6 can appear 8 ish? interesting...you're a 6 then? i test 7w8 but decided i was 7w6 instead...but maybe that's why i test higher on 8....did you test 8 too? i'm sorry if i missed you saying that.

no he didnt test, but he wrote something (i bolded it ) and i just said that sounds either counter phobic 6 or 8... and yeah, counterphobic 6 can appear 8... except 6 is aggressive bc is denying fear and 8 wants power...

 

[KDude]

so...a 6 can appear 8 ish? interesting...you're a 6 then? i test 7w8 but decided i was 7w6 instead...but maybe that's why i test higher on 8....did you test 8 too? i'm sorry if i missed you saying that.

i've tested as 9w8, and 4(!), and 6 a few times. i almost thought 9w8 because there is a bit of a passive and aggressive nature to it, but when i read 6, i can draw more parallels. the anxiety, the dependency on systems/beliefs/groups.. it's so pervasive. one minute i'm all championing the motto of a workplace, then i'm rebelling and quitting when it fails me. same with religion/spiritual ideals too... same with friends or relationships. i need to read more about 6 though (and how to be a healthy one) because this is NO GOOD i want to be a more stable, self-assuring person.