INFJ Needs Help Identifying Classmate!

[BMEF]

Hello everybody! I'm a male INFJ. I'm a sophomore in highshool. There is this girl in my class that highly disrepects me 24/7 in an indirect manner. We've been in the same school since nursery. I would greatly appreciate it if anybody can help me identify this girl's personality type. Listed below are a few of her descriptions:

* I'm sure that she is an Extrovert
* She laughs A LOT; a lot of her friends and our teachers tell her things like "You are a woman. Do not yell (or raise your voice)."
* She loves hanging around people that are funny and enjoy telling jokes.
* She is traditional. She is sexist.
* Her clothing is rather stylish, but conservative.
* She is extremely nice and friendly to EVERYONE in my class except me. Whenever I try to be nice to her, she would "repel" away from me.
* She's not confrontanational. If she has something to say, she says it in front of her "posses".
* She likes to dominate (have things done her way); be the center of attention.
* She always trys to avoid having one-on-one conversations with me. Whenever I try to confront her, she would saying something like "I'm busy now." and walk away.
EDIT:
* If you are her friend, she would treat you like a saint. If she doesn't like you, she would treat you like garbage.
* She always comes late to class. At least 98% of the time. She has to make an entrance (last one to enter class).
* She's outspoken. Sometimes, she would complain to a teacher for not being fair.
* She freaks out when teachers warn her that they might call her mother.
* Her older brother once got into a car accident. He did not have a driving license. When I asked her about the incident, she changed the subject ASAP. She only gave me a quick retort.
* ARROGANT.. At least, from a male INFJ's perspective.

Any ideas, anyone?

Thank you in advanced.

 

[Phantonym]

Awww...looks like the girl really likes you.

My guess would be ESFJ. Although there's really not enough information to decide whether J or P, so take this with a grain of salt.

 

[VagrantFarce]

Awww...looks like the girl really likes you.

or maybe she's the only honest one and everyone else is just humoring you

 

[BMEF]

I don't understand why you two are acting very sarcastic.

Thanks for the help anyway..

 

[Rebe]

My ESFJ friend is awkward with romantic interactions. She told the boy she liked that he reminded her of her brother. That about killed me.

She sounds ESFJ from what you have said so far. ...

 

[wrldisquiethere]

What do you mean by highly disrespecting you in an indirect manner? Examples?

She does sound rather like an ESFJ with some unhealthy attitudes.

 

[proteanmix]

She sounds like someone who doesn't like you but is avoiding saying "Get the fuck away from me I don't like you."

She's within her rights to avoid you if she wants to. Doesn't sound unhealthy to me at all.

 

[BlackCat]

She sounds like someone who doesn't like you but is avoiding saying "Get the fuck away from me I don't like you."

She's within her rights to avoid you if she wants to. Doesn't sound unhealthy to me at all.

Oh come on, everyone knows that unhealthy E_FJs dislike people!

 

[Phantonym]

I don't understand why you two are acting very sarcastic.

Thanks for the help anyway..

I wasn't being sarcastic at all. I'm sorry if you had that impression. It really looks like the girl likes you very much and she doesn't know how to act around you, so the only possibility is to act indifferent and try to avoid you. But we only have your words here to go with, only you can observe her.

 

[prplchknz]

I wasn't being sarcastic at all. I'm sorry if you had that impression. It really looks like the girl likes you very much and she doesn't know how to act around you, so the only possibility is to act indifferent and try to avoid you. But we only have your words here to go with, only you can observe her.

I do this when I like someone. I'm a bit mean to them, and then I act like they're morons.no wait that's not true I just ignore them, and act like they're not worth my time.

 

[Tyrant]

Pretty much nothing to go on. You will get nothing remotely accurate if this all you're going to write.

 

[BMEF]

What do you mean by highly disrespecting you in an indirect manner? Examples?

She does sound rather like an ESFJ with some unhealthy attitudes.

What I meant was that she would avoid giving me eye contact whenever I would say something nice to her. She would for example, hold a strand of her hair and roll her eyes if I compliment her.. Of course, I no longer compliment her.

She sounds like someone who doesn't like you but is avoiding saying "Get the fuck away from me I don't like you."

She's within her rights to avoid you if she wants to. Doesn't sound unhealthy to me at all.

Unhealthy? That sounds good to me.

I wasn't being sarcastic at all. I'm sorry if you had that impression. It really looks like the girl likes you very much and she doesn't know how to act around you, so the only possibility is to act indifferent and try to avoid you. But we only have your words here to go with, only you can observe her.

No need to apologize. I like your theory.

I'll edit my first post with more information.