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Please help me type this guy...IxxJ?????

b4b

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xSFP
-27-year-old male

-works as a Computer Specialist

-plays drums for a rock band, and is very good at it. loves music

-has a busy daily schedule (work, training, band practice, wakes up at 4am to get everything done on time before he starts work) and is looking for additional job to make more $$

-likes to cook, and good at it.

-takes care of his appearance (exercises, nice clothes, hair, everything) women are crazy about him....knows how to handle women, but is not a macho type of guy.

-is a little old fashioned as far as relationship goes (this is at least how he acts)

-hilarious, makes everyone laugh...usually laughs at himself...a clown of the party

-dry humor, poker face

-is rather shy, won't openly talk about his feelings

-is in a long term relationship which (according to his friends) makes him very miserable, relationship that fell apart a few times, but he feels obligated to keep it going (his gf cheated on him and acts like a bitch most of the time, won't spend time with him, they don't do anything together) but he stays in it not knowing what to do about this whole situation....

-has very good manners, a gentleman.

-likes to give you 'tips', advice...

-says that he likes to listen to your problems

-tries to look cool and tough at first....until he drinks and starts making jokes.

-says he hates people and going out, but when drunk he can handle anything and have fun doing it....and thats the reason why he plays in a band, otherwise he wouldn't go out at all.

-is very popular, respected and liked by others, doesn't like sites like myspace/facebook, but he signed up upon a request from a girl, so he can talk to her, saying he normally hates writing people.

-admires successful women, puts them on a pedestal

-keeps saying: "please tell me if I talk/write to you too much/or if I bother you" and gives many compliments.

-has a best friend for many years now that he spends the most time with.

-annoyed by undependable people.

-very clean, hates dirty places/people

-strong political views


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sorry this is all over the place, I was trying to put all the info together...so what's your guess?
I'm having a hard type typing him....
thank you :)
 

Siúil a Rúin

when the colors fade
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Apr 23, 2007
Messages
14,037
MBTI Type
ISFP
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496
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
ISFJ or possibly ISTJ

The social awareness and skills makes me think Fe.
 

b4b

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thank you for the replies...I thought ISTJ too...but wasn't sure, because of his music skills, and also the fact that he can be very sensible once you get to know him (he was able to read my feelings, and I'm not an open person)

I was considering ISFJ as well, but I thought it won't fit with the type of job he is doing? also isn't ISFJ more a feminine type? he definitely takes care of his looks, I caught him checking himself out in the mirror too...lol
 

TheJimbo

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3w4
Sounds like you've got a sexy-smooth ISTJ on your hands.
 

b4b

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yeah, a smooth sexy ISTJ....ahhaha
now I have to figure myself out and see if I should even bother to keep in touch with him...
 

swordpath

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ISTx
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5w6
ISxJ, like others have said.

Does he compliment a lot when he isn't drunk? I don't really dish out compliments much myself, but maybe that's not a universal thing for ISTJ. Sounds more ISFJ to me though. Get him to take the test.
 

b4b

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ISxJ, like others have said.

Does he compliment a lot when he isn't drunk? I don't really dish out compliments much myself, but maybe that's not a universal thing for ISTJ. Sounds more ISFJ to me though. Get him to take the test.

yeah, actually he does..but more compliments when drunk.
I posted more about him in another thread:
http://www.typologycentral.com/foru...on-istj-males-what-should-i-do-about-guy.html
and now I'm getting mixed responses, he might be more extroverted than introverted?
I thought when somebody says they don't like people and need their peace, don't have a lot of friends/or don't keep in touch with many people, they are automatically I? am I wrong again?
 
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