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I or E for these two friends?

alicia91

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I suck at typing, especially people close to me.

1) “S” (XSTX?)

- very assertive, but is always tactful, at least in person
-tends to be the leader in any group, makes the plans & follows through, etc
-Friendly but doesn’t ‘share’ personal thoughts and feelings
- Likes crowds – bars, restaurants, amusement parks, the mall, Las Vegas, casinos, cruise ships, etc
- gets energy from being with others, but still needs downtime to decompress and release some of this energy that was attainted by being with others
- is happy alone for a few days but then goes crazy and wants company or wants to get out
- not the greastest conversationalist with people she doesn’t know. Mostly because she hates to share and is quite reserved though if there is a mutual topic then talks a lot
-moderately talkative but also a good listener
- likes it quiet when needing to focus


2) “M” (XSFp?)

- eccentric middle-aged cat-lady type
- not assertive
- very chatty – talks everyone’s ear off, nobody can get a word in edgewise and has a tendency to not think before she speaks (social blunders)
- knows all the cashiers, bank tellers and their personal business
- a loner, is home alone most of the time
- doesn't seek much stimulation
- has few friends but is ‘friendly’ with everyone
- says she likes to go out to bars, restaurants but rarely does

Introverts or Extraverts?
 

alicia91

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Thanks for your help. I'm going to mull those over. In both cases I thought that they were both introverts, especially my neighbor M - but I wonder if she's just become a loner by habit. I can see ESTJ for S.
 
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ESTJ for the first, crazy for the second (she's not "eccentric" unless she's rich)
 

alicia91

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So ESTJ it is for #1

#2 definately sends out mixed signals about the E vs I.
 
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