The NEW Type Thread!

[Vendrah]

thx for taking your time. I wasn't too active recently (and most of it was contained within PM's) so you indeed didn't have too much information. Your assessment isn't inaccurate, based on a few type-me i wrote in various places, the most common ones were INTP and xNFJ. Both Ti-Fe types. And i tend to get borderline results on E/I, T/F and J/P, which certainly doesn't make things easier. Of course I thought about being an INTP, but I guess I know too well that I'm not quite logical in whatever I do. I'm aware that there's so much that I don't know, and I know that I hardly do what would be considered rational. And I also don't get along too well with others INTP, it's like I can't communicate with them at all. But why am I even trying to reflect and explain things here... Anyway, it helps me think, so I guess it's worth it.

I'm not an enneagram expert, but you came up with something quite similar to what I thought myself. At first, I was between 4 and 5, but I noticed that both aren't accurate. I have no desire for individualism (which is the core motive of 4), and I also don't really like to be super detached and only observant (like a core 5). So, 2, 7 and 9 (in whatever order) indeed seems to be the most likely tritype.

My tip here is that you are not a type 6 at least.
Are there trends on Big 5?

 

[noname3788]

My tip here is that you are not a type 6 at least.
Are there trends on Big 5?

I have my own type-me thread for this, so let's leave this thread to [MENTION=33903]Jazzy Orchid[/MENTION] or it will go into the graveyard Anyway, big5 results are fairly stable, unlike MBTI.

 

[Vendrah]

I have my own type-me thread for this, so let's leave this thread to [MENTION=33903]Jazzy Orchid[/MENTION] or it will go into the graveyard Anyway, big5 results are fairly stable, unlike MBTI.

Ok.
Use these to advantage for enneagram and MBTI. You dont even need me, just take the MBTI-Big 5 table and the ennegram thread I done recently.

 

[RadicalDoubt]

Are you...radically doubting whether or not I'd get to you? lolollol ok it was funnier in my head.

ANYWHO...I fully admit to typing from a "gut feeling" at times...and honestly...I think INTP is a good fit for you. But we're gonna slip into enneagram a smidge here because I think I'd change that 6. You are a very "heady" and isolationist type. Not a bad thing, just a nature. I think you come off more 5w6 than 6. The wing will give you a few of the 6ish characteristics but not prominently. You're very logic and understanding based. Emotions aside, don't rattle anyone. I think 539 Sp/So would be a good ennea for you. 5w6 3w2 9w1. I think you settled in to a good typing. I don't see a hint of strong emotion or anything from you normally, which could be being disguised by 5, sp, 3... XD but I know of INFPs who have more "feeling" even in the logic side than you do. I think a highly introverted INTP works. I know some more "extraverted" style INTPs as well. they can vary a lot, so don't think you have to fall in line so easily. But yeah, I vote INTP core 5 for you.

your sticker: Radically Intelligent

I appreciate this analysis. A lot of people have been suggesting recently that 5 may work better than 6 core. It's kind of wacky, I'd be more willing to play to the 5 core if I had some other superego influence in my tritype, especially since by pure "relation" I relate more to 5 than 6. Still, I'm pretty confident in my 3 fix (though I usually go with 3w4 because my image is very much constructed in an "idealism" sort of way and I do require differentiation and "uniqueness" between myself and others to identify myself) and have settled back into 9 so idk. Regardless of the 5 or 6, I think I really lean heavyside onto my wing and relate pretty heavily to both disintigration patterns designated by 5 and 6, so maybe I'm awkwardly hybrid? It's definitely something to consider, thanks much!

 

[Red Memories]

Go ahead and try and type me

Betcha all were starting to think I totally forgot this thread.

ALAS I HAVE NOT! but you're my next one, you're also tempbanned, but doing it anyway lol.

I haven't seen a great deal of you, but you give me T vibe for sure. A lot of your post are based on logical discussion. But I was taking the time to read through some history and was glad to see I'm not the sole thinker of NTP of some sort. I found some more playful sides to you as well in my look through and your style reminds me a bit of some ENTP users. So with my limited knowledge I think my best guess would be ENTP by behavior and posting style.

Enneagram wise it is hard to calculate from my more limited sight of you. I am leaning on 6w5, 3w4, 9w8 So/Sp. It is really hard to decipher your second variant at this time but nothing seems very Sx about you yet...

Your sticker: Swiveling Joyride

 

[Red Memories]

I'm pretty new to the forum, but I uploaded a video in one of my threads if you'd like to check it out. I'd say you have Fi high, I read this
thread you made. A lot of your fears involved other people, could mean a demon extroverted judging function like Te.

Heyo kid wassup.

The forum linking stuff isn't working so wanted to possibly see if you could link me to the said video you speak of for a typing. <3

 

[Red Memories]

I think [MENTION=33903]Jazzy Orchid[/MENTION] is a very turbulent (aka neuroticism higher than 70% in Big 5) FP type or at least has a quite significant Fi. Her Fi rages are less controlled than mines.

Hey you

I've actually had some time to get to know you more before making this typing! that's fun! You're pretty awesome. I definitely am leaning on INFP for you. I see some Ne but I just don't see that strong Ne that it would take for me to call you an ENFP. Of course I also do not know any ENFP 5s, but 5 and INFP are a bit more common. I think you've picked a great type assessment for yourself at this time... INFP 5w6, 9w1, 2w1 Sp/Sx I may say. I think you are very reserved, keep to yourself a lot, but will find something among the crowd and connect to it, something more Sx related. Morals come first with you which is also more Fi > Ne. Much of your commentary on bigger issues also takes in the moral aid side of things. But you are looking toward a bigger picture, something connecting dots, which points to Fi and Ne working together. the 5 helps your Te as the inferior seem a little stronger.

Your sticker: Vendrawesome

 

[Red Memories]

Lmao I did Vendrah and I typed again..with a very similar typing.

I'M LOSING TRACK OF MY THREAD LOL.

 

[Red Memories]

Heyo, count me in.

I can submit a questionnaire thingy I did recently or if you're able to go by my current posts that's cool too. I know I haven't been active in a long time.


As I said in another thread, I suspect ENFP is correct for you, but I'll keep you updated as I gather more about you

Hey Lunalumz of fun.

I think NTP is a great typing start for you but I actually think INTP for you. You are sort of fun and out there but its like... I've seen some wild INTPs, especially with 7 as an enneagram like that. I always find ENTPs can be a bit more forward and sometimes downright pushy and arrogant when it comes to opinions, where INTP is more subdued and within themselves especially when giving logic. But you definitely have this spark of Ne that made me briefly question if maybe...you...were an ENFP actually. but 7 + Ne looks stronger, and I think your Ti prevails. I may lean more So/Sp than Sp/So from what I've seen of you. Just my 2 cents. Besides the 7w6 which I think is solid I'd go 9w1, 3w2.

Your sticker: THE REVOLUTION

 

[Red Memories]

I'd like to be on the waitlist, that is if you are still doing it.

I am still doing it

I found your questionnaire, for reference:

a) What is your age range and general location (Country so that cultural values can be taken into account)? Do you have any impairments that may affect the way that you answer this questionnaire? Any religious or political beliefs (or anything else along those lines) that also might have an effect?
I am 15 years old and live in the United States. No I do not have any impairments. And I do not think I have any religious beliefs that will affect this, as I am an atheist, and I do not really have political beliefs as I don't really follow current trends.

b) Which types are you currently considering? Why are you considering them and why haven’t you decided on one?
I am currently considering either INTP, INTJ, or INTP. I am considering these just to be truthful to who I truly am, and I am just interested in theories like this. I havent decided on one yet because I keep overthinking possibility even though I understand MBTI.

2) What do you deem as your purpose in life?
My purpose in life is to gain knowledge through getting a full grasp of the sciences and maths, philosophy, literature.
3) Of the seven deadly sins, which one(s) do you relate to the most and the least and why?
I relate to gluttony the most because I am a human who needs basic things. And I relate the least to greed because I could care less about money.
4) Analyzing your relationships with others, briefly describe:
a) The type of people you are drawn to
I am drawn to people who will have a deep conservation with me about philosophy or any STEM related thing. A friend who is logical and can put up a good argument. But mostly I want a friend who would have a deep conservation with me.
b) The type of people who are drawn to you
The type of people who are drawn to me are very few, most people view me as boring. But the type of people who are drawn to me are people who share common interests, people who are logical.
c) The type of people you are repulsed by
The type of people who I am repulsed by are people who are ignorant.
5)What are the traits in others that you admire but you cannot emulate yourself? Elaborate.
The one BIG trait that I admire in others, especially my intj friend are their or his work ethic. This is because I have really trash work ethic which prevents me from doing lots of things I want to do.
6) Describe your relationship with the following:
a) Anger
I do not usually get angry, I am calm, I only get angry under stress.
b) Shame
I feel shame quite a lot, especially when I am by myself reflecting over my day or life.
c) Fear
I dont usually feel fear, but sometimes do when I think about my future.
d) Love/passion
I do not usually feel love or passion as those things do not concern me unless I have a crush on someone.
e) Conflict
I am in conflict with myself everyday.
7) What are some of the themes that have played a prominent role in your life (ie. A struggle you’ve been unable to conquer, ect)?
Some themes that have played a prominent role in my life is work ethic, intelligence, knowledge. A struggle I’ve been unable to conquer is definitely my trash work ethic.
8) Answer only one of the following:
a) [College aged and above] What is your area of work/study? Why did you choose this and would you change it? If so, what would be your ideal?
I am currently in high school.
b)[Under college aged] What do you plan on studying/working as in the future? How did you go about deciding this? If this is not your ideal area of pursuit, what would be?
I would prefer to not go to college, but I know it is inevitable. But anyway, I would probably major in either cs or physics and minor in philosophy, but I would prefer to major in philosophy, but my parents. I knew I was going to major in STEM since middle school, as my love for STEM began in middle school.
9) When meeting a new person, what do you tend to focus on?
When I am meeting a new person I usually tend to focus on whether or not they have similar interests as me, which will help me to decide whether or not we should be friends.
10) How do you feel about humanity as a whole? What do you feel are some of the biggest problems the human race faces and why?
Humanity as a whole is doomed, but has hope. The biggest problems that we face is the economic system, the school system, and conformity.
11) What are some of your hobbies and interests?
Some of my hobbies and interests are philosophy, math and science, and programming and video games.
13) How do you usually “hang out” with your friend(s)? When answering, think about what activities you tend to choose, whether you hang out with one person at once or many, whether or not you initiate the interaction.
When I hang out with my friends I usually tend to go to their house, and it is usually just me and them. And I am usually pretty awkward in their house so I let them decide what we’ll do.
14) What is more important, actions or words? Why?
Actions are important, but words, ideas are want inspire actions. Words or ideas are the most important, as they provide a base for society.
15) Oh dear, you’ve been cursed by a witch! It’s ok though, you get a choice on which curse you will receive. Will you choose….
a) To never be able to experience the sensation of taste
b) To be immortal
c) To lose your memories
d) To be poor for the rest of your life
e) Or to never experience passion
Elaborate on why!
I would rather live poor for the rest of my life because I dont really care too much for money, as what really matters to me is as long as I have a laptop and wifi and a bed and a few books and textbooks on STEM or philosophy, Im good.

16) What do you hope to avoid being? If it helps, describe a person who embodies what you avoid/you as a villain, ect.
I want to avoid being someone who works a 9-5 job and has no life, but claims they do, I want to be different in my thinking.
17) How do you relate to obsession? Do you tend to "merge" with others or your interests? How do you feel about the idea of doing this?
I tend to merge with my interests. I feel that people should focus on themselves as this is what truly brings out the good in people.
18) Organized or messy? Plans and blueprints or impulse and surprises? What are you preferences and tendencies?
I am definitely way more messy than organized. My room is a mess, and I never follow a plan on what I want to do for the day. I tend to prefer to be open to change.
19) How do you subjectively view comfort and how do you create comfort in your life and surroundings?
I view comfort as assistance in blinding the horrors of life and I embrace that, as it is needed. I create comfort by doing my interests and following my own dream.

So first hand, enjoying theory can be more intuitive but does not equate to being a T type. So here's a few things to take with a grain of salt:
You are only 15 years old. It is very hard to time someone in their teen years. It also seems you greatly admire INTJs around you therefore you may also be mirroring them. I say this as someone at 14 who began studying and typed as ESFJ because I LIKED the way ESFJ sounded. Having a "trash work ethic" and enjoying the theories and such as you do, your questionnaire sounds NP. The difficult thing is until you are more of an adult you do not begin heavily looking into tertiary or auxiliary functions, so I could say now I do think you have Ne, and I think you are a perceiver, but I cannot say with strong affirmation that you are a specific type. From your questionnaire, I actually lean more to you being possibly ENTP. You're pretty blunt and forward with things but many ENTPs want to "play" with the Ne. Your discussion of desiring depth in conversation and etc. actually makes me think you have Fi somewhere. So I think you could also consider xNFP 5 of some sort.

I hope this guides you a little. Enjoy the journey!

 

[Red Memories]

If you have time, I would be interested in your assessment. You have had some interesting observations here.

I was like SOMEWHERE CORIOLIS POSTED I KNOW SHE DID hi 2 people got ahead in line I'm sorry. XD I'M A DISORGANIZED MESS. anywho.

We used to talk a bit more on discord and such and frankly, I don't know if I know a truer INTJ. So I'm gonna poke your enneagram because I cannot argue anything to do with INTJ.

I think 5w6 is a great core for you. I think outside that for gut type I'd go with 9w8. You tend to go with the flow of conversation, but you are not afraid to question and open up things for discussion. A usual 9 may stay quiet but a 9w8 with the right press will open that can, even if it may lead to a conflict. For heart type I'd go 2w1. I hear the crowd screaming there's not "2" INTJs but you've always been a very composed yet kind and supportive person. You help whenever and however you can with many things, and help give introspective points. Sp/Sx seems good as well.

Your sticker: I wonder why your avie is always the same character, is it a relatable one?

 

[Red Memories]

OK LET'S MAKE A NEW WAITLIST:
Methylene
Awbro
A Radiant Dawn
Acehop (if he can get back to me with the video)

WOO WOW SUCCESS STORY THIS THREAD IS.

 

[Vendrah]

Lmao I did Vendrah and I typed again..with a very similar typing.

I'M LOSING TRACK OF MY THREAD LOL.

hahaha yes, thanks.
I dont know if Im repeating myself, but the reason for my X is mainly because I used to be an ENP child, I have to suppress my Ne to live with even more SJs than world or general population. And my reasons for introversion are for self-protection, not pleasure.

 

[OptoGypsy]

I'm down!

 

[Cupcakemonster]

Feel free to count me in! Let me know if you need more info, since we haven't interacted.

 

[Cupcakemonster]

Here's 2 of my questionnaires I had posted on here months back. The only 2 answers I think I would change now is that relationship wise I'm no longer looking for a more introverted type to balance me out. I've realized I rather have someone a lot more like myself that I could hopefully have a lot of fun with. Probably an ExxP type. If I did date an introvert in the future, they'd probably be an INFJ. Also, with my question on what classes I took in college I'm actually looking into taking online classes & was thinking of taking something along the lines of marketing/entrepreneurship/business management. I still do want to finish my communications degree eventually, though. I still have interest in psychology, but wouldn't want to turn it into a job. Also, I have zero interest now in ever taking early childhood education classes again.

1) 24 yr. old (Edit: 25 yrs. old now because my birthday was this month! But I filled out this questionnaire before that lol) female. Considering ESFP, ENFP, ESTP, ENTP, ENFJ, & ESFJ.

2) I'm not sure what my purpose in life is, but I guess I would say it's to experience as many things as possible and to hopefully make a positive impact on those around me.

3) Greed is the 7 deadly sin I relate to the most, I would say. I like expensive food, clothes, cars, etc. and dream about working my way up a company and/or being a successful entrepreneur. I'm a workaholic. I rarely take time off of work, and will happily work 60 hours a week if it means making and saving more money for myself.

4) Friend wise I'm drawn to funny laid back people. Relationship wise I'm attracted to people who are basically the exact opposite of me. I like quiet, serious, & mysterious type of guys. Too bad they don't like me. lol

5) I admire people that are better at time management and following through with things than me. I have a ton of interesting ideas that never seem to go anywhere. I also seem to overestimate what I can get done in a specific amount of time.

6) In college I took psychology, early childhood education, & communication classes. I couldn't decide what I wanted to major in and didn't finish my degree though.

7) I work in a warehouse on the ship dock at the moment. I'm one of the people who train the new hires, too. 2 jobs I will never do again is be a server or a cashier. Besides the money being bad imo, it turns me from being a friendly person to straight up being a cynical, people hating person.

8) When I meet new people I focus on their general attitude & the vibe I get from them.

9) I feel like humanity is more bad/neutral than good. I think selfishness is the biggest problem the human race faces.

10) I have a lot of hobbies. Sports, physical activities, decorating, cooking, baking, reading about a ton of random things- astrology, different religions, psychology stuff, etc. I like politics (I'm a libertarian). I like the arts like going to see plays.

11) What I like to do with friends depends on that friend(s). I'm usually down for any activity/social event, but I'm also cool with ordering a pizza & binge watching shows/movies & just talking one on one with someone or just going for a long walk/drive.

12) If I was cursed by a witch I would like to lose my memories. I find that dwelling on past events holds people back from the present/future a lot.

13) I think I can "merge" with other people. I find myself liking music, shows, etc. that people do around me. I'll get into new fashion styles because of people I'm around. Also, I'll start picking up people's phrases & the way they talk.

14) I'm organized with my items usually. (Not OCD organized). However, I never use a planner or plan out my days off or anything like that. I don't mind a messy space at all, though.

15) Comfort to me is being able to be completely relaxed with someone. I'm a Taurus, so of course I love my fuzzy slippers, blankets, etc. & Don't forget comfort food, yum!

1-what makes you angry?
People irritating me, people being unnecessarily rude or smart to me, jealousy, people taking themselves or comments/jokes too seriously, people acting like I don't know how to do something that I'm good at, & people acting like they're better than anyone else.

2-what do you like/dislike most about people?
As someone who likes to psychoanalyze people, I love how complex yet simple people are. I like how different each person's lives and journey's can be, and learning all about them. I like how people can band together for causes. I like how funny people can be & laughing with them.

I dislike a lot of people's general attitudes. I dislike when people are overly serious & have no sense of humor. I dislike when people can't laugh at themselves. I dislike how quickly people can go from being friendly to being mean/angry/ignore you without explaining why or for the littlest things. I dislike how selfish people can be.

3-do you like animals? why?
Yes. They're fun to observe & interact with.

4-what do you like most about the favorite people in your life?
I like how I can say any & everything to them & the fun times we have together. I like when they find new activities etc. for us to do.

5-what do you like/dislike most about yourself?
I like a lot about myself. I think I'm smart & know about a lot of different topics, I think I'm funny, I'm ambitious, I'm good with people when I want to be, I'm good at teaching people different things, & I catch on to things easily.

I dislike how I overthink things so much. I can analyze any & everything to death. I dislike how impulsive & reactive I can be at times. I dislike my anger at times.

6-do you care about being fashionable? why/why not?
Yes. People including yourself have to look at your clothes all day long & appearances are probably the first thing people notice about you anyway, but that's not even why. It's just fun to buy things that you like & that look good. It's definitely cool when people comment on your clothes though. For example, a guy at work yesterday said "good sneaker game" to me because I wore new Nike's one day & new Puma's the next. I would happily drop $400+ on designer clothes if I felt I had enough money saved up from working hard & budgeting my money, too.

7-do you prefer to fit in or stand out?
I think, just like I'd assume most other people, I try to do a little bit of both. I wouldn't want to be "basic" or agree with other people just for the sake of fitting in, but I also don't see a reason to try to stand out just for the sake of being different. I feel like I can fit in with any group of people usually. I can be sporty, edgy, preppy, nerdy... my interest are all over the place. I like to put my own spin on things, though. For example, if I wear a basic item like Ugg boots they can't be the plain tan ones. They have to be purple or black ones with the bows on the back. idk if that's a good example lol but I'm sure you guys get the point.

8-what activities do you enjoy?
Sports, other hands-on things like playing pool, watching YouTubers & getting creative ideas from them, trying new foods, traveling, watching TV, debating politics or watching political stuff, watching stand up comedy, & probably a million other things.

9-what makes you feel secure?
I don't want to feel secure. I want to keep pushing past my comfort zones & expand myself. I guess I'd say making & saving money.

10-do you like being in a relationship? why/why not?
It's not a main focus. I like being independent. However, it's nice to have someone's company you genuinely enjoy & can share thoughts, feelings, & experiences with.

11-what do you love and why? Could be people, things, places, etc...
I love trying new things. I feel like I'd sound like an asshole if I didn't say I love my family. lol I love my friends. I love entertainment. Sports, movies, TV shows, books, music, plays, etc.

12-what do you spend the most time thinking about?
Analyzing things, things I want to do/try, convos I wish I'd have with people, sarcastic comments, random things like what if we're living in the matrix, analyzing people, & food.

13-How much have you changed over the years? Who were you as a child?
I think I'm a lot more of a people person & outgoing than I was. I still have my defiant streak in me that I did as a kid.

 

[Cupcakemonster]

Decided to fill out a new 3rd questionnaire too just so you had lots of info to go off of. Sorry if I've made this a lot for you to read now.

Personal concepts
1. What is beauty? What is love?
When I hear beauty, I think aesthetically pleasing. Something like clothes, a painting, flowers, etc. that looks good or a person or a trait that person has like their eyes that looks good. Beauty can be used to describe someone's personality too, like that person has a beautiful soul/heart.

Love is compassion. Being outwardly kind, considerate, & generous to other people. Caring for people & wanting the best for them. You can have love for individual people, & you can just have love for mankind in general.

2. What are your most important values?
Freedom, not just for myself but others too. I don't think people should be controlled. Besides that the only thing I can think of is that I try not to ever be unnecessarily rude to anybody. As the saying goes, you catch more bees with honey!

3. Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
Not really. I believe in free will. Besides that, I just like learning about different religions & beliefs. I find them more interesting/fascinating than anything else. It's also interesting how lots of religions kind of tie together or how they barrow things from each other. I find buddhism/Hinduism probably the most interesting. I used to look up things about past lives, karma, destiny/fate, soulmates, & twin flames. I don't believe in those things, though.

4. Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?
People are greedy & crave power, control, & resources so unfortunately war & militaries are inevitable. I wouldn't think anyone would prefer war but it happens, so we might as well make sure we make our military strong. I believe more in using military for self defense than just deploying troops in any country people feel the need to get involved in when they don't need to.

Power is having a leadership role over someone else. I wouldn't say power is a bad thing. Companies have managers who technically have power over their associates. Just because they're technically in charge of the people under them doesn't mean that they're mean to those people. Different people just use power in different ways. I would personally love to be a manager at a big company, so in a way I crave power/being in charge sometimes. My favorite thing to tell others though is that being a boss doesn't mean you're bossy.

Interests
5. What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
Any & everything. Pretty much whatever someone wants to talk about. I can hop into or keep a convo going on pretty much anything. I'll talk about shows, movies, books, friends, politics, funny stories, sports, psychology, life advice, people's dreams/fears, food, traveling, family.. every convo with me is probably a long convo because I love to talk. lol

6. Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?
Yes. I like talking about working out & fitness. I'll talk to people about different diets & get their opinions on them like pescatarian, vegetarian, vegan, Mediterranean, paleo, keto.. When it comes to medicine, I've told people the bad side effects I've gotten from medicine & why I refuse now to take anything. I'll tell people the less crap you put in your body the better.

7. What do you think of daily chores?
That they're not very daily. lol If I'm really bored sometimes I'll actually purposefully seek out chores around the house to do. It depends how busy I am with other things whether I see them as a pain or not.

8. Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
Haven't watched any movies lately. I'm a huge Harry Potter fan. Been watching Dexter & Avatar The Last Airbender on Netflix. Currently reading How To Be A Bawse by Lilly Singh (she's my fav youtuber). I also ordered Greg Gutfeld's book of monologues from Barnes & Noble yesterday.

9. What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
The last time I cried was when I lost my job, because I felt like all the things I wanted to achieve in the future with the company had just been completely crushed.

I smile all the time. I try to enjoy & make the best out of my day, & I love being funny & just joking around with other people. I'm usually smiling & laughing & clowning around with people.

10. Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?
I love all outdoors activities. Playing sports, theme parks, & hiking.

Evaluation & Behaviour
11. What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
I can make friends problems my problems sometimes. I don't like to see other people upset, & I like to try to fix their issues for them. My anger can be a weakness sometimes. I used to be too generous to people that don't deserve it, but I don't do that anymore so I've overcome that one.

I try not to dislike myself or things about me. I like to just hopefully improve. I dislike that I can be impulsive & don't think things through. I dislike that I can fear commitment, being trapped, & not stick with things because of it.

12. What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
A lot! I'm a people person & usually good with people, I can come up with better/easier ways to do things, I have a good sense of humor, I catch onto things fast, I'm helpful & never mind questions from people, & I'm ambitious & persistent but also kind & laid back with others.

13. In what areas of your life would you like help?
Being better at time management. I never write anything down like making a to do list, I'm terrible at being like I'm going to do this at this time, & I can't for the life of me stick to a routine. I want someone to basically be like ok every day at 10:00 we're hitting the gym together. I feel like I need someone else to keep me accountable on things.

14. Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
Yes, often. I'm never moving at the pace that I want to be. I've gotten better at not getting discouraged about it.

People & Interactions
15. What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
People's humor, their randomness, their achievements, their ambition/motivation, their kindness, their empathy, & their energy.

I dislike when people are rude, too uptight, unwilling to try other people's ideas, have no sense of humor, get offended easily, are too sensitive or sulk too much, or don't realize their impact on the people around them.

16. How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?
Romance sounds nice, but I've never had someone be romantic with me. Never been in a long term relationship actually, but I am recently dating someone new. They're planning a picnic date for me, so I thought that was sweet & romantic of them. Sex is fun & a nice experience to share with someone, & it's exciting to try new sexual things with them.

I think I answered this in another questionnaire, but at the moment I just want someone who I feel can keep up with me, help me grow, & is generally on the same page as me.

17. If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
I don't really have many worries about it. I think kids are fun. I would probably just treat them like a small playmate tbh. Anything else would probably just depend on things about them individually.

18. A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?
Ask them a ton of questions, & see why they think the way they do. I don't need other people to agree with me, & I actually think it's more fun when they don't. I like to debate. Also, I just like to learn people's motivations & thought processes. Maybe I could also change their mind or they can change mine, but I don't bank on it. Always cool to try to get new information from others.

19. Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.
Being realistic, I probably think of most people as being neutral. I try to give to charities whenever companies are raising money for the make a wish foundation or something like that. I do think society as a whole deserves voluntary compassion.

Selfishness & being self absorbed. Also, people being judgy & trying to push their "morals" on others.

20. How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?
I just meet people randomly tbh. I've meet friends at college in my dorm lounge, at school dances, at work.. whoever has good energy & that I enjoy talking to I'll be friends with.

21. How do you behave around strangers?
Outgoing & try to just be myself. Yesterday in line at chipotle the guy in front of me just started talking & joking around with me. We were mostly talking about food & different creative food ideas like making a dessert pizza.

 

[AceHop]

Heyo kid wassup.

The forum linking stuff isn't working so wanted to possibly see if you could link me to the said video you speak of for a typing. <3

Sup, I pm'd you.

 

[Cupcakemonster]

[MENTION=33903]Jazzy Orchid[/MENTION] were you still continuing this thread?

 

[Red Memories]

[MENTION=33903]Jazzy Orchid[/MENTION] were you still continuing this thread?

if you want to be included yes :3 I've just been very very busy lately because my mom has a knee problem so I've been doing most of her housework.