in the 16personalities test, i had gotten INFJ, to which i wasn't completely sold on with the "decisive, determined and passionate". later on, i came to discover that 16personalities test wasn't trustworthy, and that INFJ was some sort of magical unicorn type. i did a bunch of cognitive functions tests, to which my results were always confusing in the Fi/Fe and Ni/Ne spectrum. and even been typed as xNFP, in a conversation with a mutual.
i'm quite certain i'm a ravenclaw, and a 4w5 (479 tritype), but other than that... i don't have any idea... so, help?
when problem solving, i'm quite bothersome. it's very hard for me to not be subjective/relative, and go around different interpretations of the same subject numerous times. when i do get to a conclusion, it's even harder to give it up. i take a long time making decisions, and if they turn out not to work as planned, i feel disoriented and really demotivated.
i always look at the bigger picture, how my decisions will affect those around me and how it will affect me. i'm more willing to put myself through troubles, than others, if i'm quite honest--it might also be a matter of internalized phobia of responsibility. for example; if i'm going out with friends, my immediate concern is whether they're having fun or not, and sometimes it's even hard for me to distinguish whether i'm having fun too, or if i just see them having fun, therefore think i'm having fun... in general, it's very hard for me to understand exactly what i'm feeling, and why i'm feeling it.
i'm certain i'm an introvert; need quiet alone time to re-charge from all the draining social situations on a daily basis, however, if a few of my mutuals were to describe me, they would say i'm an extrovert, outgoing, bubbly. in fact, if all my mutuals were to make a description of me, it would probably come up with different traits in each of them. i tend to communicate myself differently to everyone i meet, and uncounciously pick up their quirks. i'm a bundle of agreeableness, which is actually genuine, as i rarely full out disagree with anyone. even if something isn't true to me, i can see why it would be true to the person in question. i rarely get into conflicts, and kind of live my life avoiding them. although i'm very sarcastic and like to tease people, i know not to do it to certain people or at a certain time. (in fact, i've always been praised for my manners and politeness. i had a teacher that particularly liked to joke that i could be from royalty. and it's still my favorite "compliment" i've received.)
always needing a good dose of alone time, is one of the reasons i "plan" my days ahead. whithout making any tangible notes, i always have an idea of what i'll do when i get home, when i'll answer to penpals, and what i'll leave to tomorrow. even if it isn't intentional, i always fall into a routine, and get quite drained if it is interrupted. i'm not big on changes, to the point it affects me physically (migraines), each time i change my routine. i'm only spontaneous if i'm already out, and decide to maybe make a stop that will take me longer than prepared, but if it's a sunday and we didn't plan previously, i'm not going out.
i feel as if it's still important to note that although i do organize and tidy up, i'm not exactly the most prepared person. things will still pass by me, if i'm too focused on other things... i've come to develop amazing improvising skills, especially when it comes to public speaking, because if i get side-tracked from the plan, i'll panic. so, instead, the plan is usually some vague topics that i can freely develop on.
regarding panic; i'm not great under-pressure, and can tend to just decide whatever so i don't have to be chained to that problem for longer. i basically go on shopping sprees, and ignore whatever problem i have for longer, trying to escape in things that bring me pleasure. definitely something i have to work on.
i'm very imaginative and love creating. however, it's very hard for me to start writing, and even harder to finish a piece--i get distracted... have ideas that seem better than the last ones, create new story lines and character, and basically keep on changing the dynamics of a story, until i give it up. i'm often described as absent and clueless, and easily get lost in thoughts. ironically, i'm quite observant, often remembering facts about people that i don't want share not to sound creepy or the person everyone consults for birthday presents because "i know everything about everyone".
i don't really know what else to add... i do realize that INFP and INFJ don't share any congnitive functions, however, i seem to equally identify with both? i really don't know, help???
i'm quite certain i'm a ravenclaw, and a 4w5 (479 tritype), but other than that... i don't have any idea... so, help?
when problem solving, i'm quite bothersome. it's very hard for me to not be subjective/relative, and go around different interpretations of the same subject numerous times. when i do get to a conclusion, it's even harder to give it up. i take a long time making decisions, and if they turn out not to work as planned, i feel disoriented and really demotivated.
i always look at the bigger picture, how my decisions will affect those around me and how it will affect me. i'm more willing to put myself through troubles, than others, if i'm quite honest--it might also be a matter of internalized phobia of responsibility. for example; if i'm going out with friends, my immediate concern is whether they're having fun or not, and sometimes it's even hard for me to distinguish whether i'm having fun too, or if i just see them having fun, therefore think i'm having fun... in general, it's very hard for me to understand exactly what i'm feeling, and why i'm feeling it.
i'm certain i'm an introvert; need quiet alone time to re-charge from all the draining social situations on a daily basis, however, if a few of my mutuals were to describe me, they would say i'm an extrovert, outgoing, bubbly. in fact, if all my mutuals were to make a description of me, it would probably come up with different traits in each of them. i tend to communicate myself differently to everyone i meet, and uncounciously pick up their quirks. i'm a bundle of agreeableness, which is actually genuine, as i rarely full out disagree with anyone. even if something isn't true to me, i can see why it would be true to the person in question. i rarely get into conflicts, and kind of live my life avoiding them. although i'm very sarcastic and like to tease people, i know not to do it to certain people or at a certain time. (in fact, i've always been praised for my manners and politeness. i had a teacher that particularly liked to joke that i could be from royalty. and it's still my favorite "compliment" i've received.)
always needing a good dose of alone time, is one of the reasons i "plan" my days ahead. whithout making any tangible notes, i always have an idea of what i'll do when i get home, when i'll answer to penpals, and what i'll leave to tomorrow. even if it isn't intentional, i always fall into a routine, and get quite drained if it is interrupted. i'm not big on changes, to the point it affects me physically (migraines), each time i change my routine. i'm only spontaneous if i'm already out, and decide to maybe make a stop that will take me longer than prepared, but if it's a sunday and we didn't plan previously, i'm not going out.
i feel as if it's still important to note that although i do organize and tidy up, i'm not exactly the most prepared person. things will still pass by me, if i'm too focused on other things... i've come to develop amazing improvising skills, especially when it comes to public speaking, because if i get side-tracked from the plan, i'll panic. so, instead, the plan is usually some vague topics that i can freely develop on.
regarding panic; i'm not great under-pressure, and can tend to just decide whatever so i don't have to be chained to that problem for longer. i basically go on shopping sprees, and ignore whatever problem i have for longer, trying to escape in things that bring me pleasure. definitely something i have to work on.
i'm very imaginative and love creating. however, it's very hard for me to start writing, and even harder to finish a piece--i get distracted... have ideas that seem better than the last ones, create new story lines and character, and basically keep on changing the dynamics of a story, until i give it up. i'm often described as absent and clueless, and easily get lost in thoughts. ironically, i'm quite observant, often remembering facts about people that i don't want share not to sound creepy or the person everyone consults for birthday presents because "i know everything about everyone".
i don't really know what else to add... i do realize that INFP and INFJ don't share any congnitive functions, however, i seem to equally identify with both? i really don't know, help???
