I'll just say that it's been about two months and I CANNOT get the MBTI (or Socionics, for that matter) off of my mind. It's like every living second is researching about it, and it's slowly taking over my life / other interests. Normally, I'd be intensely interested in one subject for around a month and then jump to another one (usually pretty abstract topics, I've had philosophy, physics, history and programming "phases"), but this is lasting waaay longer than the others. So let me begin the history of an obsession that is to make HISTORY in my adolescence (okay, I apologise for that).
I tested initially as INTP, and it seemed to click initially, but after reading about the cognitive functions, I don't think I'm on the Ti-Fe axis at all. This discounted ENTP, ESFJ and ISFJ (which were all types that I thought I was at one point), and after taking a cognitive functions test, I got INFP as my result, with a striking 95% lead for Fi. After that came Ne with around 80, Si with 70 and I can't be bothered to remember the rest right now (I do remember that Ti was higher than Te).
Now, I'd LOVE to be an INFP. Really would. Idealistic? Compassionate? Describes me perfectly! The thing is, just as a ray of light from a distant star can take millions of years to reach our miserable little rock, it seems that the INFP paints a picture of me that's also about a million years old. Until I turned about 13 (I'm 16 now), I was the sweetest, smartest (considered gifted), kindest and most creative child around. Seriously. Everyone I knew loved me. After the hormones kicked in, things changed. I turned from an artsy kid to a "logical" kid (read: Sheldon fucking Cooper). A grumpy, moody one. The fantasy novels that lived in my shelves slowly became science books. The hours on the laptop went up from 2 to about 6. And social contact also went down the drain.
I have a theory that this was when about Te and Si kicked in to my stack. I'm now pretty pessimistic and I spend most of my time on my own, indulging in whichever subject area seems to pique my interest at the time. It's like time passes twice as fast with my hands on the keyboard and headphones in my ears. I became so obsessed with "facts" and "logic", that now, at 16, I've forgotten how to empathize. I can't read intentions accurately for shit (because I'm in my own head a lot of the time, and unobservant). I'm self-centred and self-absorbed. Sure, I love my family. I really do. But I'm a huge grump around them and everyone else. I want to care, but it's so much conscious effort and it drains me very, very quickly. Any expression of emotions that I might have had seem to totally evade me, regardless of how deeply I feel things. This is what makes me doubt being an Fi dom. Oh wait, I still take things personally, shit.
I became a people pleaser for a while at school (stopped now though). Couldn't stop running my mouth with more and more "facts and logic". Truth is, it made me really, really sad. I bullied some people at my old school. Badly. And even after moving to a new school (where I don't think I'm close to anyone yet), I can't stop thinking of WHY I'd bullied them. No moral boundaries? I cried and cried and even wrote them apologies but I think this made my recent circumstances worse.
Recently, I've been stuck in a rut and can't leave my house due to circumstances outside (I live in Beijing) and I'm more miserable and introspective than ever. Oh, in case I forgot to tell you, I've also been relatively much more closed-minded since becoming a teenager. Sounds nothing like a rosy INFP. In fact, if I remember correctly, this seems to fit the ISTJ stereotype. (of course, I love all you ISTJs, I have many ISTJ friends but I'm referencing the stereotype).
I don't mind a bit of a mess in my room, or messes in general. Most of the time, I don't even notice it. I can go on doing whatever "fun" thing I was doing before I made a mess. This is the polar opposite of my parents and brother, who are conscientious in every sense of the word. My thoughts are (relatively) much more organized and I've been told that I can hold my own in a debate (I myself disagree, I know some FAR better than myself at debate). Of course, I don't want to live in a pigsty either, so I try to keep it clean enough to prevent any unpleasant odors from leaping headfirst into my innocent nose. I do shower every day and brush my teeth (though I have to be reminded sometimes, you wouldn't believe). I also tend to procrastinate on schoolwork. I kind of know what the unifying concept behind most of my assignments are, so I can have a look at them, put them off and do them later. Doesn't always work.
Ah, but there's moreeee to itttt! You see, my (supposed) Ne loves to show itself when I'm writing (I'm 100% sure of the Ne-Si axis) but when speaking to people, the beast doesn't rise from the water! It's fucking silent! I'm ALL Te still (can't seem to control it anymore). I have an incessant urge to "correct" even when I know it's not the right thing to do. I can't control it very well! However, my Te is still shit when it comes to actual implementation of plans and my behavior seems to fit the pattern of inferior Te (anger bursts, yelling) more than inferior Ne (worst case scenarios). If anything, I tend to underprepare and improvise rather than overprepare like the other xSTJs I know. Why am I like this? Why???? Can you please help me type myself??
It angers me especially that I'm so concerned over a glorified pseudoscientific horoscope. The universe is so vast and expansive and yet I'm here fixated on one microscopic insignificant corner of it. I want to be curious about something ELSE now, dammit (I'm curious about many subject areas if I see myself CARING about being curious about it, nothing to with practicality). I despise that I've let it become an obsession (I refuse to call it a hobby). So tell me, which little box can I best be squished into?
I tested initially as INTP, and it seemed to click initially, but after reading about the cognitive functions, I don't think I'm on the Ti-Fe axis at all. This discounted ENTP, ESFJ and ISFJ (which were all types that I thought I was at one point), and after taking a cognitive functions test, I got INFP as my result, with a striking 95% lead for Fi. After that came Ne with around 80, Si with 70 and I can't be bothered to remember the rest right now (I do remember that Ti was higher than Te).
Now, I'd LOVE to be an INFP. Really would. Idealistic? Compassionate? Describes me perfectly! The thing is, just as a ray of light from a distant star can take millions of years to reach our miserable little rock, it seems that the INFP paints a picture of me that's also about a million years old. Until I turned about 13 (I'm 16 now), I was the sweetest, smartest (considered gifted), kindest and most creative child around. Seriously. Everyone I knew loved me. After the hormones kicked in, things changed. I turned from an artsy kid to a "logical" kid (read: Sheldon fucking Cooper). A grumpy, moody one. The fantasy novels that lived in my shelves slowly became science books. The hours on the laptop went up from 2 to about 6. And social contact also went down the drain.
I have a theory that this was when about Te and Si kicked in to my stack. I'm now pretty pessimistic and I spend most of my time on my own, indulging in whichever subject area seems to pique my interest at the time. It's like time passes twice as fast with my hands on the keyboard and headphones in my ears. I became so obsessed with "facts" and "logic", that now, at 16, I've forgotten how to empathize. I can't read intentions accurately for shit (because I'm in my own head a lot of the time, and unobservant). I'm self-centred and self-absorbed. Sure, I love my family. I really do. But I'm a huge grump around them and everyone else. I want to care, but it's so much conscious effort and it drains me very, very quickly. Any expression of emotions that I might have had seem to totally evade me, regardless of how deeply I feel things. This is what makes me doubt being an Fi dom. Oh wait, I still take things personally, shit.
I became a people pleaser for a while at school (stopped now though). Couldn't stop running my mouth with more and more "facts and logic". Truth is, it made me really, really sad. I bullied some people at my old school. Badly. And even after moving to a new school (where I don't think I'm close to anyone yet), I can't stop thinking of WHY I'd bullied them. No moral boundaries? I cried and cried and even wrote them apologies but I think this made my recent circumstances worse.
Recently, I've been stuck in a rut and can't leave my house due to circumstances outside (I live in Beijing) and I'm more miserable and introspective than ever. Oh, in case I forgot to tell you, I've also been relatively much more closed-minded since becoming a teenager. Sounds nothing like a rosy INFP. In fact, if I remember correctly, this seems to fit the ISTJ stereotype. (of course, I love all you ISTJs, I have many ISTJ friends but I'm referencing the stereotype).
I don't mind a bit of a mess in my room, or messes in general. Most of the time, I don't even notice it. I can go on doing whatever "fun" thing I was doing before I made a mess. This is the polar opposite of my parents and brother, who are conscientious in every sense of the word. My thoughts are (relatively) much more organized and I've been told that I can hold my own in a debate (I myself disagree, I know some FAR better than myself at debate). Of course, I don't want to live in a pigsty either, so I try to keep it clean enough to prevent any unpleasant odors from leaping headfirst into my innocent nose. I do shower every day and brush my teeth (though I have to be reminded sometimes, you wouldn't believe). I also tend to procrastinate on schoolwork. I kind of know what the unifying concept behind most of my assignments are, so I can have a look at them, put them off and do them later. Doesn't always work.
Ah, but there's moreeee to itttt! You see, my (supposed) Ne loves to show itself when I'm writing (I'm 100% sure of the Ne-Si axis) but when speaking to people, the beast doesn't rise from the water! It's fucking silent! I'm ALL Te still (can't seem to control it anymore). I have an incessant urge to "correct" even when I know it's not the right thing to do. I can't control it very well! However, my Te is still shit when it comes to actual implementation of plans and my behavior seems to fit the pattern of inferior Te (anger bursts, yelling) more than inferior Ne (worst case scenarios). If anything, I tend to underprepare and improvise rather than overprepare like the other xSTJs I know. Why am I like this? Why???? Can you please help me type myself??
It angers me especially that I'm so concerned over a glorified pseudoscientific horoscope. The universe is so vast and expansive and yet I'm here fixated on one microscopic insignificant corner of it. I want to be curious about something ELSE now, dammit (I'm curious about many subject areas if I see myself CARING about being curious about it, nothing to with practicality). I despise that I've let it become an obsession (I refuse to call it a hobby). So tell me, which little box can I best be squished into?