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Video: Pretty smart girl

Betty Blue

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I think she raises some valid points, she seems sweet too. Some kind of self realisation/point of perspective understanding... and yes a privileged perspective. I can think of a lot worse people though.

Think she comes across more ESFP than ENFP, much more focus on living the experience. And I don't think I ever met nor heard of directly or through myth an ENFP that will have make up on to make a video whilst she is mid packing to move country!

I also love that piano music as it has special meaning to me, so that might add bias for me.
 

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I clarified this up above. "pretty smart" not "pretty" and "smart". I was not making any comment whatsoever on her appearance.

I thought she had some interesting things to say is all - especially for a 21 year old.

People can feel free to get offended for no reason. I don't give a shit.

Hahaha, if it had been about the appearance, there should have been a comma (pretty, smart girl) but since there isn't one, the "pretty" is used as a qualifier.

I wonder how people would have reacted if it had been a guy and the title was "pretty smart guy"...?

Regardless, she seems smart AND pretty... So what? :laugh:
 

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Hahaha, if it had been about the appearance, there should have been a comma (pretty, smart girl) but since there isn't one, the "pretty" is used as a qualifier.

I wonder how people would have reacted if it had been a guy and the title was "pretty smart guy"...?

Regardless, she seems smart AND pretty... So what? :laugh:

Exactly!
 

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I don't know. I never get that touched by people talking about their life views via video. It's like, that's nice but I have no frame of reference for them, so it's all a bit hollow and one-dimensional.

I'm much more likely to be touched by hearing a friend out, even if it isn't as poignant because I know their struggles. So their realizations are much more interesting and inspiring.

But this is me speaking for me.
 

Siúil a Rúin

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I don't know. I never get that touched by people talking about their life views via video. It's like, that's nice but I have no frame of reference for them, so it's all a bit hollow and one-dimensional.

I'm much more likely to be touched by hearing a friend out, even if it isn't as poignant because I know their struggles. So their realizations are much more interesting and inspiring.

But this is me speaking for me.
I find most video presentations take too long to come to the point. I get a bit restless trying to watch most presentations, but I think it's great that people get inspired by it. I'm happy for the girl to have meaningful realizations in life. I should probably learn to be more patient.

I've definitely lived the non-conformity life with all its benefits and costs.
 

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SFP, probably ESFP.

I cannot watch the whole thing. I am a traitor to my whole generation - I dislike online videos. I much prefer reading; probably my annoyance with hearing human voices (same reason I hardly watch TV).

I agree by those who say they aren't moved by experiences of strangers. I am only affected if it is presented in a more artistic/poetic form, such as in a song or visual art.
 
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