Video: How INFJs Tell You How They Feel

[highlander]

• The simple summary of this is that INFJs tell you how they feel based on how they talk about others - the intonation in their voice, the expression on their face, etc. If you ask them how they feel about X after you talk to them, they will be distressed because they think they just told you already how they feel

 

[RedAmazoneFriendZone]

I noted INFJ tend to speak very fast when they feel/get emotional.
Do you feel concerned with that "quick rhythm" in some specific intimate situations ?

 

[Z Buck McFate]

I agree about INFJs (often) having a bad reaction to being asked how they feel about 'X', but I don't think it's because "they think they just told you already how they feel." It’s distressing because it often seems like a weird question- especially if there isn't a distinct (and obvious) purpose behind asking- and it's very rarely directly answerable in an authentic way (at least for us- it's usually too vague to answer).