[SP] ISFP males

[Giggly]

What's it like to be in a romantic relationship with one? What are they like? Tell me the good and the bad!

 

[Forever]

Giggly has a boyfriend?! Yay!! (Or eying on a potential guy?)

Depends if it is an ISFP 9 or an ISFP 4, they're both very different.

 

[Giggly]

Giggly has a boyfriend?! Yay!! (Or eying on a potential guy?)

Depends if it is an ISFP 9 or an ISFP 4, they're both very different.

Yes, I forget where to go to read about those different types. I'll roam around.

 

[Masokissed]

They're hot.

 

[Giggly]

They're hot.

Really??? Do tell how so!

 

[Masokissed]

Really??? Do tell how so!

Break gender norms, are emotional but also funny and not weak. Usually look good, too.

 

[Giggly]

Break gender norms, are emotional but also funny and not weak. Usually look good, too.

Thanks! I have noticed the bolded too!

 

[RedAmazoneFriendZone]

They are not very hot They are just pretty adaptable. Sometimes too much... (I know two ISFP quite well both are 9w1)

 

[Forever]

Yes, I forget where to go to read about those different types. I'll roam around.

Whatever you please, Giggly.

 

[Giggly]

The ISFP I know seems to be quite the planner. Always wanting to plan this...always wanting to plan that...wanting to know what the plan is. What is up with that? It doesn't seem very SP-ish.

 

[Riva]

^ Maybe he is an E6. The nervous suspicious energy of e6s always leads them to plan (cautious plans mostly).

 

[Giggly]

^ Maybe he is an E6. The nervous suspicious energy of e6s always leads them to plan (cautious plans mostly).

That's possible. He doesn't seem to enjoy just letting things stay in the unpredictable realm. He likes predictability with the things and the people around him. And if there's going to be any spontaneity it can only come from HIM!

 

[five sounds]

Really??? Do tell how so!

sensual and subdued

 

[Evo]

They are not very hot They are just pretty adaptable. Sometimes too much... (I know two ISFP quite well both are 9w1)

This

 

[five sounds]

They are not very hot They are just pretty adaptable. Sometimes too much... (I know two ISFP quite well both are 9w1)

what do you mean too adaptable? definitely have had this issue with my ISFP 9w8 s/o. interested in your take.

 

[RedAmazoneFriendZone]

They don't plan. They follow the leader....Easy guys. Very gentle. Easy lovers.

 

[five sounds]

They don't plan. They follow the leader....Easy guys. Very gentle. Easy lovers.

this is interesting to me. sounds like what she was trying to express to me the other day. why do i feel like she doesn't ever follow me then? am i being too passive in asking her? should i just be like, "we're doing this!"?

 

[RedAmazoneFriendZone]

this is interesting to me. sounds like what she was trying to express to me the other day. why do i feel like she doesn't ever follow me then? am i being too passive in asking her? should i just be like, "we're doing this!"?

Because....you are not a leader

 

[five sounds]

Because....you are not a leader

so then what

 

[SpankyMcFly]

this is interesting to me. sounds like what she was trying to express to me the other day. why do i feel like she doesn't ever follow me then? am i being too passive in asking her? should i just be like, "we're doing this!"?

Try this. I'm bored, wanna do something? Listen, nod your head, validate. Hey what if we did X? Here's why: lay out a couple reasons be a little enthused while you're doing that. Ask them if they wanna do what you're suggesting. WIN

What you are doing is highlighting the path of most resistance without bull dozing them.

I've 'had' 3 ISFPs in my life. My lil bro, my BFF from age 10 to 22ish and another friend of 3 years when I was 26-28ish.