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[ISTP] istp & apathetic

2XtremeENFP

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Joined
Jul 23, 2008
Messages
446
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
3w4
what would cause an istp to become apathetic to everything?
 
Joined
Aug 8, 2009
Messages
106
MBTI Type
INFJ
Enneagram
4w3
Instinctual Variant
so/sx
Lack of motivation, or possibly having tried too hard in the past to control their dilemmas. Can't control anything except your actions. If you can just live and stay grounded in a calmness without over-thinking, you're better off. From my experience
 
Joined
Aug 8, 2009
Messages
106
MBTI Type
INFJ
Enneagram
4w3
Instinctual Variant
so/sx
Selective caring? Hm... 2XtremeENFP, is the apathy getting to be a real problem? Are you asking because you're trying to get closer to the ISTP, or does the ISTP need to function better?
 

mcmartinez84

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Oct 25, 2007
Messages
650
MBTI Type
ISTP
I've become apathetic to everything after being entirely disappointed by something...something I've put a lot of effort towards that doesn't pan out. It's like I finally pick something I *DO* care about, put some good honest effort and caring into it...and it doesn't work?! Well shit, I might as well just not care or try and end up the same. Of course I live right now, so the fact that something good may have come from it in the past, isn't really something I think about. What matters is that whatever it was didn't work and that's where I am now. Now it's failure. Now I know my efforts were wasted. Why waste them on anything else?

Catch my drift?
 
Joined
Aug 8, 2009
Messages
106
MBTI Type
INFJ
Enneagram
4w3
Instinctual Variant
so/sx
I've become apathetic to everything after being entirely disappointed by something...something I've put a lot of effort towards that doesn't pan out. It's like I finally pick something I *DO* care about, put some good honest effort and caring into it...and it doesn't work?! Well shit, I might as well just not care or try and end up the same. Of course I live right now, so the fact that something good may have come from it in the past, isn't really something I think about. What matters is that whatever it was didn't work and that's where I am now. Now it's failure. Now I know my efforts were wasted. Why waste them on anything else?

Catch my drift?

I know of that feeling. Only, it had gotten me uber obsessed with perfecting a craft. Nothing else would matter and self-destructive tendencies would be on the prowl. When it wasn't perfect, or petered out, I'd lose...everything. People have gotta learn to keep that from happening.
 

McRumi

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Joined
Dec 5, 2009
Messages
276
MBTI Type
ISTP
Enneagram
3
Lack of open and challenging environment. Controlled and predictable environments are killer to ISTPs.
 

lilikoi

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Joined
Dec 10, 2009
Messages
34
MBTI Type
ISTP
Enneagram
5w6?
I am currently suffering from lack of motivation. I wouldn't call it apathy. And I'll 2nd the selective caring thing.
 
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