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    Senior Member Rachelinpa's Avatar
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    she's always telling me how much she misses me and it's really difficult for me to tell her I don't miss her, because more often than not I don't.
    I don't think it's a personality thing so much as she is just not the one for you, dude. I've experienced the same thing before. Break it off.

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    OK, I might not be the most emotionally attached guy, but are people really supposed to go around feeling some sort of strong emotional bond ALL the time? Where's your limit?

    (Says the guy who doesn't bond with anyone, but still a valid question.)

    And regarding the OP on how to "keep feelings."

    [YOUTUBE="rsSUMNCkLek"]Hold on Loosely[/YOUTUBE]

    Just hold on loosely, but don't let go
    If you cling to tightly, you're gonna lose control
    Your baby needs someone to believe in
    And a whole lot of space to breathe in

    It's so damn easy, when your feelings are such
    To overprotect her, to love her too much

    Don't let her slip away
    Sentimental fool
    Don't let your heart get in her way
    yeah, yeah, yeah

    You see it all around you
    Good lovin gone bad
    And usually it's too late when you realize what you had

    So hold on loosely, but don't let go
    If you cling to tightly, you're gonna lose control
    Don't know how much it'll bend til it breaks.

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    Funny, you describe your feelings best through song.

    I'd have to agree with you. When I was younger, not too long ago, I felt like I bonded with no one. Now I long for bonds, but I'm very picky about those bonds because they have to be deep.

    I'm sticking with what I said before. For me, it's not about how you feel ALL the time, as I can't feel the same all the time, with regards to intensity of feeling. Feelings have to be intense for them to come to the surface to surpass and overwhelm the rational mind. It's about how you feel in the moment, when that moment is just right. If it's so intense you lose your way with words trying to describe it, and move on to touching loving affection, then it's just right

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    for the record dudes everything is better now, I was just sort of taking her for granted :\

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    Cool. Glad I could help.
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    With us its the little things that are needed to keep the feeling going. Its things that make you think about what caused the feeling. This is how you string us along, but it has to actually tie to a positive feeling inside. This keeps the feeling going. I have experienced the not knowing how I feel and feeling lost. I have also had a feeling that just disappears and honestly dont know what happened to it. I use songs as a way to express myself, my wants, my desires, my dreams. Its a combination of the exprersion in the voice and words, the words dont have to be complicated because you can sense the feeling in the voice. I cant do youtube at work, but when you feel beat down about a relationship Gary Allen - Life aint always beautiful

    Life ain't always beautiful
    Sometimes it's just plain hard
    Life can knock you down, it can break your heart

    Life ain't always beautiful
    You think you're on your way
    And it's just a dead end road at the end of the day

    But the struggle makes you stronger
    And the changes make you wise
    And happiness has it's own way of takin' it sweet time

    No,life aint always beautiful
    Tears will fall sometimes
    Life aint always beautiful
    But it's a beautiful ride

    Life aint always beautiful
    Some days I miss your smile
    I get tired of walkin' all these lonely miles

    And I wish for just one minute
    I could see your pretty face
    Guess I can dream, but life dont work that way

    But the struggles makes me stronger
    And the changes make me wise
    And happiness has it's own way of takin' its sweet time

    No, life aint always beautiful
    But I know I'll be fine
    Hey, life aint always beautiful
    But its a beautiful ride
    What a beautiful ride

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jeffster View Post
    Cool. Glad I could help.

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