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[ESTP] How do you deal with ESTPs?

stellar renegade

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Exactamundo.

When I was going through orientation for Wal-Mart I started filling out where I'd want any assets I had through the company to go to if I ever keeled over, and this typical thug dude (amateur rapper) was kinda ragging on me for it. He was saying, you sure care about them don't you? I said I simply don't care where my stuff goes when I die. Might as well put it to good use. He said he didn't want his money to go to anyone else when he died cuz it was his.

I'm pretty sure he was mostly just ribbing me though and I ribbed him back and I think that guy was an ESTP and was mostly just trying to move the show along since they were waiting on me. haha.
 

stellar renegade

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I think I'm gonna have to take this back:
An ESTP can be controlling or completely liberating, depending on what issues they have and their impulses.

I'm sure that there are plenty of ESTPs who can be like that if they have a little J in them, but I don't think it's the essence of ESTPness. I think I was basing that off of experience, but I'm now pretty sure my friend is actually an ESTJ anyway. The other guy I was thinking of probably was, too.

I was thinking about Ti compared to Te. Ti is way more flexible and way more subtle. My friend is way more about commitments and keeping one's word and making everything set in stone. I can't stand that. He gets onto me for being too flaky, not telling him things and not being thorough enough or going back on what I said when I didn't even see it as something for sure. :doh: That's our main source of arguments, right there. I think we understand each other on pretty much every other level, but the fact that we're both initiators creates some conflict, too, because we each have different ideas about what should happen.

And he always thinks he's right about everything. I can't stand that. I tend to just not care about making conclusions about anything, he has to make conclusions. And he's pessimistic about the future whereas I'm extremely optimistic, to a fault.
 

BerberElla

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I think the only way to deal with ESTP's, is to put them over your knee and spank them, until they understand who the boss is.
 

stellar renegade

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You're not the boss of ME, Berberella! I don't know who you think you are, but as far as I'm concerned, I'm king of THIS hill!
 

BerberElla

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You're not the boss of ME, Berberella! I don't know who you think you are, but as far as I'm concerned, I'm king of THIS hill!

Shut up and get over my knees.
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stellar renegade

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okayyyy.... ouch! that hurts! ohh! you sure know how to spank hard! ow! owch! ow!

ohhhh goddd...
 

stellar renegade

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I don't think that's working. I might just have to take them off. I'll be sure to throw them in the wash. Later.
 

Amargith

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Lol..stellar, I see you've met my internet twin :D
 

BerberElla

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I can't help but squirm when you touch me like that. ;)


I'll clean them. Let me rub it all off.


And that my fine friends, is how you deal with the ESTP. As you can see, I am now boss, and can get my jeans washed for free. :smile:

Haha. :p
 

stellar renegade

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I've run into her a couple of times, but this is our first real meeting, yes.

So all three of us are on, eh? Vedddy niiice. :D
 

stellar renegade

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And that my fine friends, is how you deal with the ESTP. As you can see, I am now boss, and can get my jeans washed for free. :smile:

Haha. :p

Yes, you are the boss. I'll wash your jeans nice and sparkling clean, my dear deserving queen. :yes:
 

Amargith

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LOL, don't get any ideas, boy. I aint about to ruin her fun :popc1:


Berbs, I'm impressed. I promised this young one some training, but I think I'll outsource it to you :D
 

BerberElla

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LOL, don't get any ideas, boy. I aint about to ruin her fun :popc1:


Berbs, I'm impressed. I promised this young one some training, but I think I'll outsource it to you :D

It's ok, I like the idea of a double assault team, shall we tag team style, or just both bombard him at the same time? :smile:
 

Amargith

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You might want to entice her, then. Maybe get her warmed up a little? ;)

LOL. Berbs, I think you still have to teach this boy some humility so he doesn't go manipulating us about.


For now, you seem to be handling him just fine though. It's your catch ;)
 
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