Grace
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- Aug 13, 2009
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I have had three really close friends who were all ISFJ females.
One was my best friend for six years. She then proceeded to fool around with my boyfriend at the time. I am no longer dating the guy (INFP) and I talk to the girl a couple of times a year to keep in touch. She is probably the one person in my life who has hurt me the most (she has stabbed me in the back other times than the fooling around incidents).
The other two I am still really close with but I do see them as fair weather friends. I think if I move out of state and our friendships are no longer convenient, then bye bye friendships.
ISFJs make great friends when they are committed to you (sometimes almost a deep intimate relationship resembling a couple). Don't expect that to last forever, in my experience.
One was my best friend for six years. She then proceeded to fool around with my boyfriend at the time. I am no longer dating the guy (INFP) and I talk to the girl a couple of times a year to keep in touch. She is probably the one person in my life who has hurt me the most (she has stabbed me in the back other times than the fooling around incidents).
The other two I am still really close with but I do see them as fair weather friends. I think if I move out of state and our friendships are no longer convenient, then bye bye friendships.
ISFJs make great friends when they are committed to you (sometimes almost a deep intimate relationship resembling a couple). Don't expect that to last forever, in my experience.