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[ISFJ] ISFJ & jealousy
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Yama
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I can actually be quite prone to being a jealous little shit sometimes, and yes, I mask it very well, as I see no reason to express it, since that will accomplish nothing but upsetting the atmosphere and potentially causing conflict.
In my case at least, there aren't really any visible signs because I wouldn't let anyone see them if I was jealous about something.
If you're worried about an ISFJ being jealous about something, ask them directly. It'll catch them off guard and they probably won't like being asked so directly about it, but unless it's something big enough to make them bottle it up and suddenly explode, there's pretty much no other way you're ever going to know, in my experience.
In my case at least, there aren't really any visible signs because I wouldn't let anyone see them if I was jealous about something.
If you're worried about an ISFJ being jealous about something, ask them directly. It'll catch them off guard and they probably won't like being asked so directly about it, but unless it's something big enough to make them bottle it up and suddenly explode, there's pretty much no other way you're ever going to know, in my experience.
Unionruler
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If you sincerely care, don't want us to bottle up and want to know:
Ask directly and reassure us that you care about our feelings
I don't get jealous much but that's because people normally hurt me by neglecting me, so that threshold is reached first.
Ask directly and reassure us that you care about our feelings
I don't get jealous much but that's because people normally hurt me by neglecting me, so that threshold is reached first.
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