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[ESFJ] ESFJ Hate Thread

DJAchtundvierzig

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I have come to know that alot of people on here do not like ESFJs. Why is this? What makes them so bad?
 

Redbone

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'Cause their emotional control will fry your brain! :devil:
 

Vasilisa

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Lark

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I'm bringing the love to the thread.

I would date an ESFJ! Yeah, that's me, out on a limb, bringing tha love.
 

DJAchtundvierzig

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Hahaha, I guess I am... I for one love ESFJs to be honest. :D
Thank you for the list. :)
 

Redbone

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I would date an ESFJ! Yeah, that's me, out on a limb, bringing tha love.

Noooo--don't do it! Your NT will fry their heart!
 

Domino

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I like them. Or is that 'lick' them?
 

sciski

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I personally think that a helluva lot of hatable 'ESFJs' are not, in fact, ESFJs, but other types who have been socialised into exhibiting ESFJ behaviours. Therefore they don't wear ESFJ well--because they don't mean it.

Of course there are some very unhealthy ESFJs out there, but I tend to feel pity for them rather than hate. Sad Fe = :(
 

miss fortune

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I love a good ESFJ... there's few people out there who have such a sense of warmness about them and are very good friends who you can always rely on and who will always be there for you :)
 
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The ESFJ bad side can be VERY intense. They do angry. Other than that, they can be quite lovely.
 

JoSunshine

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My sister and my BFF are both ESFJ's. Love em.
 

Redbone

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^See? It's already too late for you!

They've got lots of :hug: and will freely give you :wubbie:. If you're upset, they will :cry: too.

You're in trouble if they get :steam:...that's just your ass.

Good to hang out with for some :yim_rolling_on_the_

Like any type--can be good, bad, or anything in between.
 

Aquarelle

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I was borne of the womb on an ESFJ, and I married one, too. I like them okay. :)
 

Such Irony

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I happen to like ESFJs. I need someone to balance out my overthinking and weak Fe.
 

strychnine

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I like the ones here. Unfortunately 3 I know IRL are just... messed up. :( (bad past? idk)

Oh and my roommate is some sort of xSFJ, she is a very nice person (not one of the messed up ones).
 

Devil Flamingo

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I think one of my best mates is a ESFJ, and he gets me like mostly no-one does, sooo... :wubbie:
 
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