Dear ISFJs,
1. What do people do that piss you off the most? Pet peeves must be mentioned.
Probably the biggest pet peeve I have is exploitation & selfishness, particularly when the person doing the exploiting knows fully well what they are doing but feels that are entitled to whatever it is they are trying to get anyway.
A good example: Whenever my brother Jason points out to my parents that they
have to take care of him because he's their son (and therefore should be able to live at home for free). You have
-no idea- how much this
PISSES me off!!!
I hate users and mooches of all shapes and sizes :steam:
2. What is your opinion on the future? Specifically the future of yourself and family.
My family will still be chugging along. I forsee myself managing my own office eventually. I hoping a wife and perhaps 1 or two kids will be in that picture but we'll have to wait and see.
Oh, and eventually I'll probably get good enough to teach ballroom dancing on the side :workout:
3. If you are offended by someone's actions but you can't show it, what do you usually do, body-language and speech wise?
I typically get kind of distant and passive aggressive. Body-language wise my movements will get stiffer, as if under strain. I'll keep looking/moving/looking away from you as well. Verbally, I'll start to become cold, distant, and indifferent to you.
Usually if I'm angry at you, it'll become apparent
4. Do ENTPs' attraction to anarchy annoy you? If so, how and to what extent?
It depends on what, why, and to what degree. If the ENTP is the mad scientist type that's furiously working away on a proof or something, then it can be endearing as I feel like I'm contributing (if only in a small way) to this new discovery by cleaning up after her and caring for her.
People who are into anarchy just for anarchy's sake are often incredibly irritating and I try to avoid them.
5. What captures your attention? In the positive way of course.
Kindness, charity, compassion, creativity, confidence, adventurousness. People who demonstrate these qualities get high marks with me. People who
really excel at any one of these traits become people that I admire.
6. Inversely, what do you guys brush off as "stupid bullshit"?
-Ravings against the status quo or some other authority without any kind of alternative solution to the problem they present. This kind of ties into my above answer about anarchy, but people who are counter-culture for the sake of being counter-culture are really friggin' obnoxious.
If you're going to try and do your own thing, cool, but if you're just doing it for the sake of shocking-and-rebelling than piss off and leave me alone.
-Constantly whining and complaining over the most mundane of things. If you're the type of person who flies into a fit whenever you have to spend an extra 50 cents on a drink, I'm going to rip your eyes out with my own two hands. JUST PAY THE GOD DAMN EXTRA CENTS, MOVE ON AND SHUT THE FUCK UP >8| . If paying that little bit extra is worth getting an ulcer over, then just don't buy the damn thing!
7. What makes you genuinely happy? The kind of feeling that gives you hope that the world is not all bad.
Sincerely,
A Diehard ENTP.
-Whenever I see a solider come home and reunite with their kids and/or their spouse.
-Whenever someone plays Good Samaritan, just because.
-Being around the people I love and care about. Their continued presence reminds me of why I'm so lucky
- Going dancing. It's one of the few times in my life that I feel desirable, and that's a good thing in any language
