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[ISTJ] Mission ISTJ Impossible?

aerogirl

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Once an ISFJ male decides that a relationship is over, is it absolutely impossible to redeem and fix?
 
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MBTI Enthusiast

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9w1
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sp/sx
P.S. Your subject and post are contradictory. ISTJ or ISFJ?
 

aerogirl

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ISTJ sorry.

Yea I tried asking this question on another thread but I think it annoyed people. I didn't really get an answer.
 

musebreak

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yup, probably means it's over for good. I wouldnt say things are impossible, but honestly, I think it'll put you through more pain than it's worth. Move on, get over it, and flyyyyyyyyyyyyy
 

aerogirl

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Okay. He said he hopes to date me again someday. Maybe he said that to be nice.

You're right, I know the answer is to move on.

But I really wish I knew what steps I could take to show him that I am the best match for him :)
 

d@v3

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Just be yourself. If you have to take "steps" = a change in your behavior. If you have to change your behavior to show him you are the best for him, chances are you're not... and that's not necessarily a bad thing. :)
 

aerogirl

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Lol yes, it may not be a bad thing because it will allow me to realize that I should be with a different type of person.
 

IZthe411

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You really like this guy but you might not be for him. Give it some time, and you'll be over him.
 
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