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Would you/have you? Under what circumstances? What do you actually consider cheating?
Umm...I don't know if you posted this question to all the quadrant threads at the same time, but considering how few answers the SJs have posted thus far -- I think the answer is NO.
Really, I get the impression that a healthy SJ is probably the least likely of all quads to cheat, it goes completely against their value system and tradition.
But perhaps this is a stereotype.
Would you/have you? Under what circumstances? What do you actually consider cheating?
This idea of what cheating is is an interesting one to me. Some think it would only be the actual sexual act itself, others think if one is in love with someone other than one's partner that would be cheating, others will think that fantasizing is a form of cheating. Flirting?
I suppose it would be fair to believe that each couple, if in love, could have this conversation. But as a woman who has been in love with an ISTJ man for a long time, I don't remember that we've ever gotten as far into this conversation as would be satisfying to me!
It doesn't occur to me that he would cheat and with good feelers for stuff like that I think I'd pick up on it pretty fast as I don't see him as particularly adept at deception.
For myself, if simply loving other people made me guilty of cheating, I'd be in trouble!
Dang. I think I've got a thing for ISTJs!