[ISTJ] ISTJ's will you answer this please?

[cornflakegirl]

Thank you all!!!

I have passed some of this on to her. With an INTP you have to make logical points for them to take advice, and all of you did that so it helped me discuss this with her...

I feel very bad for my friend. Even prior to the emotion resurfacing she was having a hard time trying to make her heart move on. I think he has set the bar very high, and now it is almost idealistic in her mind. I am sure time will help, but it doesnt help to know that someone cares about you and seems to be suppressing it, even for the right reasons.

Again, thank you.

 

[Giggly]

In the words of Andreas Capellanus, "A new lover puts an old lover to flight".

Help her to get out there and start dating other guys!

 

[cornflakegirl]

Very true!

She is going to have to heal....and move on.
It is what it is, and that is all she can really do at this point.

Thank you.

 

[Giggly]

You're welcome. You're a good friend to her.