SJ types prefer statements, and rarely want to know "why, or what if"
NT types are rarely satisfied with an answer.
We are anethema to one another, because the SJ wants to make a statement and be finished, move on. The NT see's this as being controlled, or that the SJ is a brick wall and won't discuss. Once the NT attempts to further discuss, the SJ see's the NT as being argumentative and selfish.
Neither side can put themselves in the others shoes.
I have spent a lot of time trying to understand SJ types, my entire family is comprised of them. I felt very alienated for most of my life. Now I am beginning to understand you guys. I have learned to not question things, because you guys need to make a statement, and have someone do it. That makes you jolly inside.
NT types need to discuss and think out ideas, pretty much the complete opposite of what you do!
I can't believe SJ types even post in forums like this.
Oh and don't get me wrong, I think you all have some great traits, so I can get along with SJ types, disagreement is the problem.