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[ISTJ] Do ISTJ's hang on to all old relationships (stay 'friends' with old gf's and friends)

jazzyidahovandal

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Jun 24, 2009
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Meh, I am not in contact with old boyfriends. It brings back too many bad memories. I do keep in touch with college friends and high school friends, mostly via facebook
 

Lily flower

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Jun 28, 2010
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I've heard that ISTJ's are loyal, but the one I know will blow you off if you even do anything that is not in her sphere of perfect and correct. Then if you do something she likes, you are back in the friend zone. Exhausting and shallow! I only put up with her because she is married to a friend of mine.
 

Sam Spade

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I don't remain friends with my latest ex. I completely cut all ties and can't be bothered with her anymore.
 

mrcockburn

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Jan 3, 2010
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My ISTJ guy is still friends with some of his exes. I'm friends with my non-psycho exes, too. It's quite natural if you liked someone enough to date, you'd like them enough to stay friends with.

Unless either are immature and can't get romantic fantasies out their head after the decision to split was made.
 
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