[ISTJ] How to Escape Female ISTJ

d@v3 · Feb 21, 2009

MacGuffin said:
Do it!

^ If you knew how she was you wouldn't either.

MacGuffin · Feb 21, 2009

d@v3 said:
^ If you knew how she was you wouldn't either.

It's just 5 minutes.

d@v3 · Feb 21, 2009

MacGuffin said:
It's just 5 minutes.

Your terrible.

MacGuffin · Feb 21, 2009

d@v3 said:
Your terrible.

Your choice.

Shaula · Feb 21, 2009

Peer pressure!

d@v3 said:
LOL! Did it work?!

Nope, my father caught her in the act. Never trust grandmothers, I tell you.

alcea rosea · Feb 22, 2009

d@v3 said:
What! ENFP's DO NOT say "no"! Until maybe the last minute, they will come up with a reason. But until they come up with a reason they lead you on for a while hoping you will go away. I just went through this scenario!

Hmmm...I've been ENFP for well over 30 years now and said No many times. :laugh:

simulatedworld · Feb 23, 2009

alcea rosea said:
Hmmm...I've been ENFP for well over 30 years now and said No many times.

Wow, thanks for clearing that up. I'm sure he meant that totally literally and not as an intentional exaggeration for comedic purposes.

alcea rosea · Feb 23, 2009

simulatedworld said:
Wow, thanks for clearing that up. I'm sure he meant that totally literally and not as an intentional exaggeration for comedic purposes.

Thank you for your kind answer.

Do you think I took it that way?
Was I totally 100% serious with my answer?

d@v3 · Feb 23, 2009

I only said that because the ENFP's I know (especially the one I am persuing now) are very good at sending mixed signals! :doh:

She led me on for 3 weeks and SHE was the one who said that she wanted to "get together sometime". Then she said no. Now she is kind of acting like she in interested again.

It's just not fair!

Amargith · Feb 23, 2009

d@v3 said:
I only said that because the ENFP's I know (especially the one I am persuing now) are very good at sending mixed signals! She led me on for 3 weeks and SHE was the one who said that she wanted to "get together sometime". Then she said no. Now she is kind of acting like she in interested again.

It's just not fair!

Hardly, she's just trying to establish some form of connection with you. Way too early to even consider the rest, remember?

d@v3 · Feb 23, 2009

Amargith said:
Hardly, she's just trying to establish some form of connection with you. Way too early to even consider the rest, remember?

It is still hard to understand though.

Why say you "want to get together sometime" after talking for 2 days? Does that not imply that she wants to see me? :huh:

If not, why say such a thing if you don't mean it?

This stuff should be going in the ISTJ-ENFP thread. :doh:

Amargith · Feb 23, 2009

d@v3 said:
It is still hard to understand though. Why say you "want to get together sometime" after talking for 2 days? Does that not imply that she wants to see me? If not, why say such a thing if you don't mean it?

This stuff should be going in the ISTJ-ENFP thread.

Sigh, coz we like to talk to people and like to have fun with them, Dave. We don't just go looking for mates, we go looking for interesting people.

d@v3 · Feb 23, 2009

Amargith said:
Sigh, coz we like to talk to people and like to have fun with them, Dave. We don't just go looking for mates, we go looking for interesting people.

Well then why doesn't she just tell me what is so interesting about me so I can emphasize that part? :cheese:

Habba · Feb 23, 2009

d@v3 said:
Well then why doesn't she just tell me what is so interesting about me so I can emphasize that part?

Which one of you were an ISTJ female? :rules:

Amargith · Feb 23, 2009

Habba said:
Which one of you were an ISTJ female?

I recently converted at dave's request

Venom · Feb 23, 2009

d@ve. the key is to wait for the ENXX people to come after you
.... there is no way you could ever "strategically" ensnare them... so just relax

ie: if that ENFP really wanted to get to together with you, she'd actaully arrange it/ask etc

BC said:
1. you cant force it. if you have to worry about what to say at x or y point, then you're talking to the wrong person
2. you cant force it. the moment you accept this, you can relax and just have fun (and if you feel 'pressured' to 'have fun', then please see point number 1')

Shaula · Feb 23, 2009

So Davey, have you talked to her yet?

Babylon Candle said:
d@ve. the key is to wait for the ENXX people to come after you
.... there is no way you could ever "strategically" ensnare them... so just relax

ie: if that ENFP really wanted to get to together with you, she'd actaully arrange it/ask etc

+1

matmos · Feb 23, 2009

Y'see there are 2 lines of action, do nothing or do something.

Doing nothing is not an option here. Female ISTJ are ball-breakers. (So are male ISTJ, but nevermind.)

Within the do-something possibility there are 2 options: passive & active.

An active solution would be tell the lady what's eatin' ya. Be honest. Go on, tell her. Cons - everyone will thing you're a bastard, if that bothers ya; pros - it works.

The passive route is much more interesting. ISTJs do not like strangeness. This is the key to getting them out your hair. And it could be fun.

Grow your hair long; start writing poetry. Paint abstract paintings (ask her to model, dressed as a rabbit); learn the banjo and sing spirituals really fast. Become an athiest and start quoting Dawkins at every opportunity. Tell her you've become a pacifist and have a copy of Wind in the Willows (open, strategically, of course) placed in the bathroom.

Paint your toe-nails black and wear flip-flops! This might work, without any of the above.

In short you must become an ISFP. And pronto.

Good luck. May the force be with ya.

You'll need it.

d@v3 · Feb 23, 2009

bananatrombones said:
Grow your hair long; start writing poetry. Paint abstract paintings (ask her to model, dressed as a rabbit); learn the banjo and sing spirituals really fast. Become an athiest and start quoting Dawkins at every opportunity. Tell her you've become a pacifist and have a copy of Wind in the Willows (open, strategically, of course) placed in the bathroom.

Paint your toe-nails black and wear flip-flops! This might work, without any of the above.

In short you must become an ISFP. And pronto.

Good luck. May the force be with ya.

You'll need it.

I'm DEFINITLEY going with the first action, our meeting is tomorrow. Surprisingly though, she has not tried to contact me since the later half of last week! :cheese:

Maybe she has finally gotten the hint.... or maybe she didn't like me in the first place and she was just emotionally unstable/chemically unbalanced? :worthy:

d@v3 · Feb 23, 2009

Babylon Candle said:
d@ve. the key is to wait for the ENXX people to come after you
.... there is no way you could ever "strategically" ensnare them... so just relax

ie: if that ENFP really wanted to get to together with you, she'd actaully arrange it/ask etc

Amargith! If this is true, why did you not tell me! Is it true that I have no chance at all?

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