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[MBTI General] ISTJ-ENFP Relationship Starter (Help!)

d@v3

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dave...i do think if an istj liked all the silly ways of an enfp then it COULD work. it's just a problem if you decide you're ready for them to grow out of it because they probably won't.....imo. so good luck to ya.

I don't think I would EVER want them to change:cheese:..... Now, let's be reasonable... if an ENFP pulled out a hundred dollar bill and tried giving it to a homeless person, surely an intervention would be necessary. :yes: But until then, you can be as whimsical and free as you like. That is why I like you in the first place! ;)

Guys in general don't like "their" women to change, right? :huh:
 

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Sorry dave, my bf is only out of the country till Friday...
 

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I don't think I would EVER want them to change:cheese:..... Now, let's be reasonable... if an ENFP pulled out a hundred dollar bill and tried giving it to a homeless person, surely an intervention would be necessary. :yes: But until then, you can be as whimsical and free as you like. That is why I like you in the first place! ;)

Guys in general don't like "their" women to change, right? :huh:

some do...yeah.
but that's the perfect philosophy...you should be fine. ;)
 

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RATS! Way to dash whatever hopes I had left Amargith! And here I thought you would let me down lightly.... being an ENFP! :cry:
 

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You're welcome next time he leaves for Norway though :smooch:
 

d@v3

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some do...yeah.
but that's the perfect philosophy...you should be fine. ;)

What do you mean I should be fine, Erin? Fine with what? :huh:

I was talking about change in general, not necessarily ONLY the good changes.
 

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LOL! So I was right about your picture! You ARE a naughty one, I knew it! ;)


Oh I have a naughty mode as well as a very innocent mode..whatever floats your boat :devil:
 

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Let's not get carried away Amargith.....................yet! :cheese:

But if you insist on knowing, I'll take BOTH modes. ;)
 

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So we have an ISTJ... whose heart has been broken by a whisical ENFP telling us he doesn't want us to change... repect man... THIS is why they say ISTJs have true stamina!
 

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So we have an ISTJ... whose heart has been broken by a whisical ENFP telling us he doesn't want us to change... repect man... THIS is why they say ISTJs have true stamina!

My heart didn't get broken! It's frozen over! You would need a chizel and a hammer to break it! :D

Besides, I have a pacemaker!:cheese:
[^Yes, that is one of those dry SJ jokes.]


My feelings will never show, because I'm still an SJ no matter what Amargith thinks! Perhaps SHE is the imposter!?:devil:
 

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Yes, I admit. I'm an SJ..plz command me.
 

Wild horses

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But remember Dave my slap dash use of the english language... an example would be; I got 'heartbroken' today over the fact that there were no cheese and tomato toasties left in the cafe that I visit! :D
 

d@v3

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But remember Dave my slap dash use of the english language... an example would be; I got 'heartbroken' today over the fact that there were no cheese and tomato toasties left in the cafe that I visit! :D

I knew it Amargith! You can't fool me but you have been fooling everyone else all this time! :cheese:

Wild, the first thing I want to do after reading your post is ask what a "cheese and tomato toastie" is. Is that some kind of European sandwich? :huh: Something with that description can't possibly taste good.

Ah yes, your slap-dash use of language... so you were exaagerating the fact? Oooooh I understand now! [I think] :doh:
 

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So, do you think I'll make more sense to ISTJ's now? :coffee:
 

d@v3

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So, do you think I'll make more sense to ISTJ's now? :coffee:

Well, I think I already do! You are ENFP on the outside and ISTJ on the inside! ;)

Acutally, given your avatar and what it says above your avatar, you are probably the exact opposite of an ISTJ. Oh, wait, that's an ENFP.... that means you have won the argument! :doh:

You really ARE manipulative! :peepwall:
 

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Well, I think I already do! You are ENFP on the outside and ISTJ on the inside! ;)

Acutally, given your avatar and what it says above your avatar, you are probably the exact opposite of an ISTJ. Oh, wait, that's an ENFP.... that means you have won the argument! :doh:

You really ARE manipulative! :peepwall:

I didn't do anything! On the contrary, here I go out of my way to proclaim my new type aka 'ESFJ' and you accuse me of manipulation!
 

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HANG ON AMARGITH HAS BECOME AN ESFJ... girl we need to have words in my office NOW! Dave you should be ashamed of yourself leading Amargith into bad ways... I shall deal withyou latter... Honestly I leave this thread for FIVE minutes... can't a girl eat a chese and tomato toastie around here in peace!
 

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HANG ON AMARGITH HAS BECOME AN ESFJ... girl we need to have words in my office NOW! Dave you should be ashamed of yourself leading Amargith into bad ways... I shall deal withyou latter... Honestly I leave this thread for FIVE minutes... can't a girl eat a chese and tomato toastie around here in peace!

Shameful of what?! I have no bad ways... I'm completely innocent! I swear! :cheese:It is Amargith's fault! She started it! I am just the victim in all of this! Please don't hurt me, I'm too young to die! :peepwall:


And can somebody PLEASE tell me what a cheese and tomato toastie is?!
 
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