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[ISTJ] ISTJs: Is love worth the trouble?

Domino

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I'm prepared to destroy Raz with the Care Bear stare. But who's going to clean up?
 

raz

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I don't know, though. If I knew a reliable place where there were ISFJs ripe for the picking, I'd be all over it.
 

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"Is love worth the trouble?"

Side effects of heartbreak may induce vomiting.

After my first girlfriend dumped me, my nerves were shot pretty badly. For a few days I was physically worn out, and vomited once or twice. So that kind of stuff apparently can happen.

But looking back, the vomiting doesn't seem like that big of a deal.

See, you survived! :D
 

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I don't know, though. If I knew a reliable place where there were ISFJs ripe for the picking, I'd be all over it.

Society.

They aren't that hard to find.
 

swordpath

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^What?

Girls are overrated anyways. They screw with you and don't look back. Fuck em.
 

Lady_X

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aww...stickin up for your boy...so sweet. :)

and yeah...whatever...just find a chick that wants the same things...no big deal...so shut the hell up. :D
 

raz

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^What?

Girls are overrated anyways. They screw with you and don't look back. Fuck em.

I've asked a lot of girls out. The ones I was really interested in, all had boyfriends. I really did get from some of them, "I would if I didn't have a boyfriend." One specifically that told me that, we clicked so well. When I heard the boyfriend part, it was just :doh:.
 

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Been there a few times. Often times they're married though or something. Again, fuck 'em.
 

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Wow, I don't think that's happened to me before. It's good news, because it means that you have the ability. Your approach works, apparently.

Or, they're saying that because they don't want to hurt your feelings by saying "no." Hopefully, that's not the case. I've run into it before, once.

But all the girls I've ever asked out (total of 10, at most) have been single. They still turned me down. :D So your record looks pretty good, in some respects.
 
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Hey guys, don't become bitter. That just makes things harder and more unpleasant.

Especially within common institutions such as marriage.

ISFJ's are not born married. The single ones are just harder to spot because they are introverted.

They also get divorced.

Why do you say this? May I remind you that ISFJ's are just as much SJ as the other SJs.
 

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Why do you say this? May I remind you that ISFJ's are just as much SJ as the other SJs.

Cause it is true? All types get divorced. I wasn't singling out ISFJs as more likely to get divorced, but to acknowledge that you'll find divorced ISFJs out there.
 

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Cause it is true? All types get divorced. I wasn't singling out ISFJs as more likely to get divorced, but to acknowledge that you'll find divorced ISFJs out there.

Yes, of course. :)
 

raz

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So, I guess it'd be a bad thing to walk up to a girl, and say, "Socialize with me so I can get experience."

My current tactic of alienating everyone around me apparently isn't working. DAMN IT!
 

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So, I guess it'd be a bad thing to walk up to a girl, and say, "Socialize with me so I can get experience."

My current tactic of alienating everyone around me apparently isn't working. DAMN IT!

lol
 

raz

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Just admit it. ISFJs are a myth. You are really an ISTJ in disguise trying to fool us into thinking that these things really exist. I've found out your secret! Be gone, vile pest!
 
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