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[ISFJ] How do ISFJs flirt?

tenINsFJ

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Specifically females, but males are okay to know too. I'm just curious.
 

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I don't imagine that they would all flirt alike. :thinking:
 

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^^^^^^^^^

Any info from your perspective.
 

tenINsFJ

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I don't imagine that they would all flirt alike. :thinking:

That's okay if they all aren't the same, any input helps if you'd be so kind to share your ways :)
 

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That's okay if they all aren't the same, any input helps if you'd be so kind to share your ways :)

You know ISFJ's are pure and proper, they don't flirt. What were you thinking making this thread?
 

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I'm currently chasing down an ISFJ (and starting to fail miserably), but I've never known her to flirt. Despite proclaiming that she's "a big flirt at times." Although, her saying that in earshot of me could be flirting in itself.

From my experience with her, I'm guessing they just like to cut that part out and wait for you to ask.
 

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I'm not very good at flirting. :blush:

If I feel attracted to someone, then I usually can't help but to tell them directly that I have those feelings for them.
 

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Man you guys are like the purest type. I am only saying that because my mom is an ISFJ.
 

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Man you guys are like the purest type. I am only saying that because my mom is an ISFJ.

I'm not sure if I should say thank you or feel insulted. :huh:
 

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The wittiest person I ever knew is ISFJ.

She could be quite profane.
 

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They flirt in an extremely obvious way imho. But it's hard to describe. Let me think about it for a while.
 

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They flirt in an extremely obvious way imho.

I would agree with this in that it is direct but I'm not sure if that would then be considered flirting.
 

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I'm not sure if I should say thank you or feel insulted. :huh:

My mom is my favorite person on earth, I would consider it a really nice compliment.
 

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My mom is my favorite person on earth, I would consider it a really nice compliment.

Ahh, then I thank you, Sir. *bows* :)
 

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I agree with Hmm.
I generally tell the person up front, sometimes bluntly, but there are also times where I try to flirt but end up just being really friendly and as time drags on the person will grow to think of me as a friend and all the while I was thinking I was flirting with them.
So yeah, I can understand how that could be in extremes.
 

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TWO ISFJS replied?!?!?1 come on.. there has to be some more!!!!!! =[
 
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