[SJ] SJs & sex

[The Ü™]

SJs can be kinky.

Indeed; most Asian school girls are SJs.

 

[MacGuffin]

Indeed; most Asian school girls are SJs.

YOUR fetish doesn't make them kinky.

 

[d@v3]

Well, as an ISTJ I'm a very very private person. Whatever happens between me and my girlfriend in the bedroom stays just between me and my girlfriend.

Talking about 'it' is very discomfortable for me.

^ I agree with Habba, however change "discomfortable" to "uncomfortable".

 

[Habba]

^ I agree with Habba, however change "discomfortable" to "uncomfortable".

Ah, no wonder it gave me that reddish line...

Back to topic... I don't know if the fact that I never had anyone to talk about these matters has somehow made me even more private with the subject than what an average SJ would be. And what makes me feel super-uncomfortable, is women talking about sex.

Stupid SJ family and SJ brains.

 

[simpleamazement]

I saw the word "kinky" and you now have my attention.

 

[Laurie]

I used to be very private about sex because that is what my husband wanted. But then I found out he wasnt as private as all that so now I'm probably too public about it.

I end up answering a LOT of sex questions my friends have. It's funny.

 

[milly86]

I wouldnt say Im conservative in the bedroom. In fact my past and current boyfriends have all said Im quite fiesty. I have to feel comfortable with the person though and will only enjoy sex (and make an effort) with people Im in love with....which is one person at a time - have had sex behind someones back before but I felt horrendously guilty for betraying my beloved and the sex with the other person felt all wrong.

To me sex totally depends on the relationship you're in though. If you have a good connection you will feel more comfortable and able to communicate better with the other person.

I do kinda expect sex on a regular basis though - I have quite a high sex drive and would be quite offended in my other half didnt wana 'get jiggy' almost every night (depending on the stage of the relationship I suppose but I've never been out with anyone beyond 2 years so sex has still been pretty hot). Although if Im REALLY tired or drunk I'm pretty useless!!

 

[OregonENFP]

Ahem. *cough*

Yes, the average ISTJ is seen as the conservative wet blanket. It's a pity. I'm sure some are. But others are not.
I wanted to say more, but I cringe at revealing this much on teh interwebs.

My ISTJ seems REPULSED by a little 'kink' and flat out tells me I'm nuts to suggest it!!!

 

[Giggly]

My ISTJ seems REPULSED by a little 'kink' and flat out tells me I'm nuts to suggest it!!!

Just ignore him and do it anyway.

 

[OregonENFP]

hahaha....

Just ignore him and do it anyway.

You're GREAT! I wish it was that easy. It involves him, however, so it would be a bit tough to 'do it anyway' on my own.

 

[d@v3]

Ah, no wonder it gave me that reddish line...

Back to topic... I don't know if the fact that I never had anyone to talk about these matters has somehow made me even more private with the subject than what an average SJ would be. And what makes me feel super-uncomfortable, is women talking about sex.

Stupid SJ family and SJ brains.

Yes, this thread makes me feel awkward. Except, I never had an SJ family. But still, nobody talked about this stuff in my own home. And when they did, I left the room [had ENFJ sister and ExxP sister no brothers] and found something contructive to do! Like... get some headphones!

 

[Shadow]

Yes, this thread makes me feel awkward. Except, I never had an SJ family. But still, nobody talked about this stuff in my own home. And when they did, I left the room [had ENFJ sister and ExxP sister no brothers] and found something contructive to do! Like... get some headphones!

Ooh no, sex is not something you discuss with your family! Except I don't mind if they *remind* me to make sure he uses a condom. (My answer: *weary voice* "yes, dad". Issue closed.) Sex is something you have a laugh about with close friends though.

 

[d@v3]

Not me! I don't talk to my close friends about it, but they seem to want to talk to me about it. So I just kind of sit and listen and put my 2 cents in.

 

[Shaula]

Yes, this thread makes me feel awkward.

Good. Good. This pleases me.

Not me! I don't talk to my close friends about it, but they seem to want to talk to me about it. So I just kind of sit and listen and put my 2 cents in.

You have the same problem as I. I can't get my ENFP/ENFJ friends to shut up about sex. You can only have so many sexual innuendos in one conversation.

 

[Giggly]

Talking about sex is something I'd only do with my guy.

Ooh no, sex is not something you discuss with your family! Except I don't mind if they *remind* me to make sure he uses a condom. (My answer: *weary voice* "yes, dad". Issue closed.) Sex is something you have a laugh about with close friends though.

Ohmygawd! I would turn 50 shades of red and just DIE if my Dad ever said something like that to me. Ugh!!! *gasp*

(so glad my parents never talk about sex at all to me. )

 

[Shadow]

Talking about sex is something I'd only do with my guy.



Ohmygawd! I would turn 50 shades of red and just DIE if my Dad ever said something like that to me. Ugh!!! *gasp*

(so glad my parents never talk about sex at all to me. )

Yeah, he was obviously very embarrassed about mentioning it. I gave out the vibes of: "Obviously! Who do you take me for? Someone irresponsible??" and that was that. Actually, more embarrassing was when I was having sex with an ex and his mum walked in on the act... I apologised to her and she was like "We were all young once!" and provided condoms on my ex's pillow the next time I was over!! Haha! (Yeah, I can laugh now...)

 

[Giggly]

Yeah, he was obviously very embarrassed about mentioning it. I gave out the vibes of: "Obviously! Who do you take me for? Someone irresponsible??" and that was that. Actually, more embarrassing was when I was having sex with an ex and his mum walked in on the act... I apologised to her and she was like "We were all young once!" and provided condoms on my ex's pillow the next time I was over!! Haha! (Yeah, I can laugh now...)

O
M
G
!

 

[Shaula]

Yeah, he was obviously very embarrassed about mentioning it. I gave out the vibes of: "Obviously! Who do you take me for? Someone irresponsible??" and that was that. Actually, more embarrassing was when I was having sex with an ex and his mum walked in on the act... I apologised to her and she was like "We were all young once!" and provided condoms on my ex's pillow the next time I was over!! Haha! (Yeah, I can laugh now...)

Awkward!

 

[d@v3]

Good. Good. This pleases me.

Why does that please you? Your just not nice to me!

Shadow- If any of what you have said happened to me, I would run.... far and fast.... and not come back for a very long time!

 

[BlackCat]

I think SJs like sex. Just what I see.