Hi,
so my bestfriend (ENTJ) has older brother (ENFJ) and from the first time I saw him, it was two months ago, I had this weird feeling that I am attracted to him A LOT (never happened with anyone to me ever before) even though I don't really know him, just from my bestfriend's stories and then, he is not my usual type.
My ENTJ bestfriend told me, that he only had serious relationships and now when he is about three months single, he has problems coping with that and drinks a lot and is in real need of girlfriend. And she says that I am much alike with him and that we have some weird common interests and favourite things.
But I never had serious relationship really, because I have pretty big trust issues and as well, I never felt this kind of big attraction towards anyone until now, so I usually in the end blew up every guy's atempt to go out with me and ran away from him. But this time I really think it could work out, but I am scared that if it won't work out that I will destroy even my friendhip with ENTJ, despite the fact that she told me that I am her only friend with whom she could imagine her brother to be with and that she would support it.
And I know that he has at least little interest in me, because we hung out a few times with our group of friends and the last time we met each other, we made out a little drunk at party. Now he is for three weeks abroad and we haven't spoken since that party.
So I wanted to ask if there is possibility that our possible relationship would work. And then if you think that my ENTJ friend will really be still okay with it, or if she is okay just with that idea and reality would be different?
so my bestfriend (ENTJ) has older brother (ENFJ) and from the first time I saw him, it was two months ago, I had this weird feeling that I am attracted to him A LOT (never happened with anyone to me ever before) even though I don't really know him, just from my bestfriend's stories and then, he is not my usual type.
My ENTJ bestfriend told me, that he only had serious relationships and now when he is about three months single, he has problems coping with that and drinks a lot and is in real need of girlfriend. And she says that I am much alike with him and that we have some weird common interests and favourite things.
But I never had serious relationship really, because I have pretty big trust issues and as well, I never felt this kind of big attraction towards anyone until now, so I usually in the end blew up every guy's atempt to go out with me and ran away from him. But this time I really think it could work out, but I am scared that if it won't work out that I will destroy even my friendhip with ENTJ, despite the fact that she told me that I am her only friend with whom she could imagine her brother to be with and that she would support it.
And I know that he has at least little interest in me, because we hung out a few times with our group of friends and the last time we met each other, we made out a little drunk at party. Now he is for three weeks abroad and we haven't spoken since that party.
So I wanted to ask if there is possibility that our possible relationship would work. And then if you think that my ENTJ friend will really be still okay with it, or if she is okay just with that idea and reality would be different?
