BatmanFanatic
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- ENTP
As an ENTP, we're often prone to scrutiny from others, whether it's due to our seemingly nonsensical pop-culture references, horrific attention to details, procrastination or overall talkativeness. In my family though, the ENTP dislike seems to be extreme. I'm pondering if my family members are certain types that do not get along with ENTPs very well. Can you guys try to guess their types based on the information I give you?
My father:
Me and him have a rocky relationship. Here are some of his behaviors and how they interact with mine:
* He's very neat, organized and on top of work. I'm very sloppy, disorganized and wait until the last minute to do work. He frequently calls me out on this, calling me "lazy", "unmotivated", a "slacker".
* He's very concrete oriented in how he speaks. Whenever I make analogies to emphasize a point, he says: "Speak normally!" very obnoxiously
* He's hypocritical with manners. Whenever I interrupt someone, it's the end of the world. Whenever he interrupts someone when they're trying to speak and I call him out on it, he resorts to the most pathetic cliche known to man: "I'm the parent!"
* He's very uncompromising, even when the matter is something relatively mild. I try to compromise with people to evade conflict and he calls me a "pussy", "wimp" or "idiot".
* He's excessively politically correct, getting mad at me when I make blunt statements like: "That kid is retarded" or "Since he's retarded, it's unlikely that he'd be able to accomplish much".
* He freaks out if I get an A- as opposed to a solid A, whereas my attitude is: "It's not perfect, but it's still pretty good".
My mother:
Me and her have a much better relationship:
* She has trouble staying organized and tends to get distracted easily, often forgetting to do important tasks around the house. I also have this tendency and she doesn't call me out as much as my father would.
* She frequently does funny voices or sings randomly for the hell of it. I sometimes do similar things.
* She likes analogies and uses them frequently when making points. I also make analogies, so we see eye to eye there.
* She's more in tune to people's feelings, so she doesn't make brutally honest statements as much as I do.
* However, she can be impulsive and lashes out at others without thinking sometimes.
My sister:
Our relationship is VERY rocky:
* She's extremely organized and constantly forces me to be organized. She'll re-arrange objects in my room, try to tell me when to do assignments, etc.
* She takes her role as the older sibling seriously. Whenever I question her logic, she'll resort to: "Because I'm the boss!"
* She isn't very good with analogies.
* She'll check up on me frequently, asking how I am and saying: "There's my baby brother!"
* She sometimes likes my new ideas, but often finds them dumb.
* She's VERY domineering with her views. I tried to respectfully explain to her why I'm supporting Gary Johnson over Hillary Clinton in the election and she shut me down, saying: "Hillary is the best!"
* She ignores logic when the logic attacks her beliefs. For example, I told her: "You realize that Bill Clinton likely raped a woman. Why aren't you mad at him as well as Trump?" And she said: "I don't believe that, there's no proof!", even though there was no proof for what Trump said either.
My father:
Me and him have a rocky relationship. Here are some of his behaviors and how they interact with mine:
* He's very neat, organized and on top of work. I'm very sloppy, disorganized and wait until the last minute to do work. He frequently calls me out on this, calling me "lazy", "unmotivated", a "slacker".
* He's very concrete oriented in how he speaks. Whenever I make analogies to emphasize a point, he says: "Speak normally!" very obnoxiously
* He's hypocritical with manners. Whenever I interrupt someone, it's the end of the world. Whenever he interrupts someone when they're trying to speak and I call him out on it, he resorts to the most pathetic cliche known to man: "I'm the parent!"
* He's very uncompromising, even when the matter is something relatively mild. I try to compromise with people to evade conflict and he calls me a "pussy", "wimp" or "idiot".
* He's excessively politically correct, getting mad at me when I make blunt statements like: "That kid is retarded" or "Since he's retarded, it's unlikely that he'd be able to accomplish much".
* He freaks out if I get an A- as opposed to a solid A, whereas my attitude is: "It's not perfect, but it's still pretty good".
My mother:
Me and her have a much better relationship:
* She has trouble staying organized and tends to get distracted easily, often forgetting to do important tasks around the house. I also have this tendency and she doesn't call me out as much as my father would.
* She frequently does funny voices or sings randomly for the hell of it. I sometimes do similar things.
* She likes analogies and uses them frequently when making points. I also make analogies, so we see eye to eye there.
* She's more in tune to people's feelings, so she doesn't make brutally honest statements as much as I do.
* However, she can be impulsive and lashes out at others without thinking sometimes.
My sister:
Our relationship is VERY rocky:
* She's extremely organized and constantly forces me to be organized. She'll re-arrange objects in my room, try to tell me when to do assignments, etc.
* She takes her role as the older sibling seriously. Whenever I question her logic, she'll resort to: "Because I'm the boss!"
* She isn't very good with analogies.
* She'll check up on me frequently, asking how I am and saying: "There's my baby brother!"
* She sometimes likes my new ideas, but often finds them dumb.
* She's VERY domineering with her views. I tried to respectfully explain to her why I'm supporting Gary Johnson over Hillary Clinton in the election and she shut me down, saying: "Hillary is the best!"
* She ignores logic when the logic attacks her beliefs. For example, I told her: "You realize that Bill Clinton likely raped a woman. Why aren't you mad at him as well as Trump?" And she said: "I don't believe that, there's no proof!", even though there was no proof for what Trump said either.