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[INTJ] Female INTJ dating Male ISFJ.

intjsy

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Aug 27, 2016
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INTJ
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I'm an INTJ female.

My boyfriend is an ISFJ.

I would love people's perspective on the strengths and weaknesses of this relationship / pairing.

My observations:

- he "randomly" cries. We'll be discussing feelings (or whatever) and I'll look over and his eyes are tearing up.

- he doesn't always seem to have a mind of his own. It seems like he's trying to please people with his answers, instead of fervently telling people what HE thinks.

- he does a lot for other people and it's a tough for him to ask for loaned-money back from his friends.

- he's definitely a protector type. His height is perfect for that. He's 6'5" ... while also being the kindest person I've ever met.

There are a lot of positives, too, but I'm bad about pointing out negatives. I'm sorry.
 

baccheion

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INTJ + ISFJ can be a bad pairing. You can type each other according to Socionics, then assess the resulting intertype relationship.
 
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