I am an ENTJ who can't get over the fact that so many ENFJs are just sooo lovely and kind. Irresistible even Ah, I'm doomed...
How would a romantic relationship between these two types manifest, and what other factors would play in?

Now, I am not a very strong E, quite on the border, actually, but my functions make me go with ENTJ rather than INTJ or INTP, which I can also relate quite a lot to, but not entirely. J is more likely.

Would such a relationship even be "possible"?