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[INTJ] ENFPS and INTJs

Julius_Van_Der_Beak

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Do you think some ENFPs prefer INTJs to INTPs because they find them easier to hold under their spell? Why do ENFPs often have antipathy towards INTPs? As an ISFJ, I'm not intellectually capable enough to grasp this for myself.

Keep in mind that I'm not speaking of all ENFPS; I'm only referring to certain individuals within the type. It's a pattern I've noticed with some ENFPs, but because I'm a sensor, I can't really grasp what it means.
 

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What in the Sam Hill are you doing, son?
 

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Do you think some ENFPs prefer INTJs to INTPs because they find them easier to hold under their spell? Why do ENFPs often have antipathy towards INTPs? As an ISFJ, I'm not intellectually capable enough to grasp this for myself.

Keep in mind that I'm not speaking of all ENFPS; I'm only referring to certain individuals within the type. It's a pattern I've noticed with some ENFPs, but because I'm a sensor, I can't really grasp what it means.

What ENFP told you this? Or INTJ or INTP. They don't enamor me, I have no idea why anyone thinks INTJ/ENFP is a great pairing. Don't be so passive aggressive about it - if someone told you that you can't grasp it, tell them to fuck off.
 

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What ENFP told you this? Or INTJ or INTP. They don't enamor me, I have no idea why anyone thinks INTJ/ENFP is a great pairing. Don't be so passive aggressive about it - if someone told you that you can't grasp it, tell them to fuck off.

Why wouldn't it be a good pairing, though?
 

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Why wouldn't it be a good pairing, though?

I have two ENFP friends, a man and a woman. There is no way on earth I could manage either one of them in a relationship. I'd have to be the adult and I don't feel like holding their hands or paying the high maintenance fees. Sorry to all the ENFP's that aren't like this, it's only my experiences. I do think that it could be a good pairing for an INTJ that doesn't mind this sort of thing. ENFP's are very bubbly and upbeat most of the time. They have great ideas, are super creative and great, loyal friends, so there are big advantages and I can see the attraction for others.
 

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http://www.typologycentral.com/foru...-enfp-fetishists-thread.html?highlight=fetish

I warn you, put on protective eyewear before reading the horse shit in that thread.

Oh I know, I've read. It just makes me go...

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What ENFP told you this? Or INTJ or INTP. They don't enamor me, I have no idea why anyone thinks INTJ/ENFP is a great pairing. Don't be so passive aggressive about it - if someone told you that you can't grasp it, tell them to fuck off.

How certain are you that you are in fact an INTJ?

INTJ and ENFP is the BEST combination and your post doesn't really show that so now I'm wondering if you are INTJ at all!
 

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How certain are you that you are in fact an INTJ?

INTJ and ENFP is the BEST combination and your post doesn't really show that so now I'm wondering if you're not INTJ at all!

I could be an ESFP for all I know. It's still a bad combo.
 

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When I think of ENFPs, the one who always comes to mind is Hawkeye Pierce.

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Funny, charming, and adorable as hell, but if I had to be around him all the time, I'd probably end up socking him on the jaw.
 

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I could be an ESFP for all I know. It's still a bad combo.

If you were not INTJ then how would you know if it is a bad combo, or not?
 

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When I think of ENFPs, the one who always comes to mind is Hawkeye Pierce.

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Funny, charming, and adorable as hell, but if I had to be around him all the time, I'd probably end up socking him on the jaw.

You know what? That's exactly my (male) ENFP friend. I never thought of Hawkeye and that's sad. Incidentally, he makes an excellent martini too.
 

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Julius_Van_Der_Beak

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I think [MENTION=6071]Oaky[/MENTION]'s statement at the end of that thread is classic.
 

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I don't trust fetishists.
 
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