I know quite a few sensors, and as far as I can tell they all enjoy talking to me and don't have any trouble with our conversations, but I really think that's because I don't try and bring abstract qualities to it. Whenever I do try testing out a little abstractness it invariably fails; they either completely misunderstand me, go silent, or start talking about something else.
It gets frustrating, and sometimes if I'm not careful I can feel a bit hurt that they don't seem to make an effort to talk about the things I find interesting when I make such an effort to respond and make their thoughts feel genuinely welcomed.
Don't get me wrong, I don't dislike our conversations... it's just that I don't find them stimulating. I wouldn't seek them out, but I'm good at carrying on a conversation with anyone about whatever they want to talk about; I guess sometimes this feels like it's taken advantage of. Although again, I'm sure it's not intentional. They're very nice people, but I think that generally the people they interact with are other sensors so they probably don't even realize that I want to talk about other things and that all the details of theirs and everyone else's lives are not things I find inherently interesting.
It's not like I am sitting there bored out of my mind, thinking when will she stop talking?! I can normally, in the moment, force myself to feel involved in and care for what they are saying...but it is so tiring and really really not stimulating.
For me, I want to connect at a different level, to find that conversation that makes my eyes light up and my mind race. I am not sure if these sensing people I know also want this and get it from the types of conversations that we have (or conversations they have with other sensors perhaps...) or if that type of connection isn't something they strive for.
I've pretty much given up trying to get that connection with the sensors that I know. Too many times of trying and being rebuffed; my sensitivity can only take so much!