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[Fe] ENTP/INTP...Feeling'' Invaded'' By Fe?

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But holy hell- when the topic was ‘why something should be done my way’ or ‘why you should feel a certain way about something’ then it’s just suffocating and invasive. It’s about boundaries and entitlement.

question:
did he actually use to word should or is that a replacement for would? as in, "if you really felt X, you would feel Y"?
 

five sounds

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I haven't read everything on this thread, but it seems that most of the times I feel upset by someone it's my Fi feeling invaded by their Fe. I am a really easy going person, and don't get angry a lot, but I can not stand when people try to change the way I feel about something or, even worse, when they assume they know how I feel and want to intervene in some way. It's very strongly like 'back off my Fi' for me.
 

Avocado

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Sometimes I play therapist with people and try and tell them how they feel. :ninja:

There are shades of 'I know what you're feeling more than you do,' though, so I try and avoid it. It's easy to see how that would be a problem with people, and how it kind of undermines a sense of trust.

I expirienced this once while talking to somebody who claimed to be psychic. They asked me why I was worried when I was hiding that very emotion.
 

Samvega

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But it can actually be fun to go up against a trained ninja (and get pummeled with Ne) with nothing more than a little plastic cocktail sword

This was some laughter inducing stuff, the imagery alone is priceless :)
 
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