Just tell him that you cannot give him/her the money because you need it to feel secure. So only if he knows a way to have a cake and eat it too, he can have it; otherwise he can stop arguing. Also, switch the blame: "I have made up my mind. Please stop making me feel so miserable about it."
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06-13-2012, 04:42 PM #717
so true...
although, i think this kinda goes for manipulation in general...
we just have our own brand/flavor...
(also, sometimes they have no idea...)
I know this is the "Ask an INTJ" thread, so this is kinda in reverse, but would you mind expanding on this?
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06-13-2012, 04:49 PM #718
INTP's and INTJ's seem to brush against each other the wrong way more often than not. Every encounter I've had, or seen, seems to spiral into some sort of conflict, however fluffy or well meant it may be. And although the setting is often saved by some form of mutual respect, it seems almost impossible to fully reach the same consensus on any issue, even though our seperate opinions are actual not that different from eachother. But it's often the subtle differences that seem to be of utmost importance in defending each owns perpectives on things. It's like there is a certain unspoken rivalry between the two types.
Have you noticed/experienced this as well, and if so, what is your take on it?~Self-depricating Megalomaniacal Superwolf
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06-13-2012, 04:54 PM #719
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06-13-2012, 04:55 PM #720
Why is it that (male) INTJ's seem to have greater difficulty typing their (female) ladiez?
Esp when they seem so certain with typing others. Hmm?"We knew he was someone who had a tragic flaw, that's where his greatness came from"
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