Ask an INTJ

[ajblaise]

Does it suck being less creative than INTPs?

[ceecee]

Does it suck being less creative than INTPs?

I just think we find other outlets/ways of expressing creativity.

[Night]

Does it suck being less creative than INTPs?

I don't have this problem, so no.

[Erudur]

BW: Your point is interesting, but can you clarify further - put some meat on the bones, so to speak? What exactly is going to overload the T?

The INTJ's Ni will generate far more ideas than the Te could process.

Yes. I have misgivings about reaching out farther with Ni than I can deductively connect with Te. But its the reaching into the expanse that is the most fun.

[BlackCat]

I think I have a good amount of confidence when it comes to interaction with you guys, however I do have one question. This has been bothering me for a little while and it's been weird to try to get my head around.

How can I tell if one of you is interested in me? This would be especially helpful to hear from the women here. I have a good idea of what some of the hints are in my head, but I'd like to refine my understanding of it to be more accurate. Thank you. I ask this because you guys rock.

[DigitalMethod]

I think I have a good amount of confidence when it comes to interaction with you guys, however I do have one question. This has been bothering me for a little while and it's been weird to try to get my head around.

How can I tell if one of you is interested in me? This would be especially helpful to hear from the women here. I have a good idea of what some of the hints are in my head, but I'd like to refine my understanding of it to be more accurate. Thank you. I ask this because you guys rock.

What are some of the signals you are getting from her?

[BlackCat]

Well so far on my list of hints that hint at being interested I have-

Still wants to talk to me and enjoys it, reveals intimate details about herself, asks advice about personal issues.

I realize that these are all pretty obvious clues, but I was wondering if there was something more. Something that tells me she wants to take it "to the next level" perhaps in a relationship. We are just good friends right now. In the past this interest has been obvious to me with the TJ girls I know, with them suddenly throwing out sexual innuendos and jokes left and right all the while being flirty. But is there something more, is there some subtle way of knowing?

Or am I just fine. >_>

[Misty_Mountain_Rose]

I'd just relax for a bit and let things progress. You're right in the last part you wrote, at least for me. I may be a terrible flirt, but I make up for it with directness. When I want something 'more', I'm definately not subtle about it lol I think some of my famous one liners include (no lie):

- 'If you come over here right now, I'm going to seduce you'.
- 'Why haven't you tried to kiss me yet?'
- 'I love you and don't want to spend my life without you'. (Completely wasted on a heartless iNTP lol)

[DigitalMethod]

Well so far on my list of hints that hint at being interested I have-

Still wants to talk to me and enjoys it, reveals intimate details about herself, asks advice about personal issues.

I realize that these are all pretty obvious clues, but I was wondering if there was something more. Something that tells me she wants to take it "to the next level" perhaps in a relationship. We are just good friends right now. In the past this interest has been obvious to me with the TJ girls I know, with them suddenly throwing out sexual innuendos and jokes left and right all the while being flirty. But is there something more, is there some subtle way of knowing?

Or am I just fine. >_>

As an INTJ you're going to want her to choose you. Especially for a relationship. It sounds like she has already chosen you as a close friend, maybe she really just doesn't have room in her life for a relationship?

I agree though that those signals (reveals intimate details about herself, asks advice about personal issues) go hand in hand with having a relationship on the next level with INTJs.

I don't know about anything subtle though. Maybe how she talks about your future together?

I'm pretty sure that a female INTJ could say a lot more about this though.

[Costrin]

- 'I love you and don't want to spend my life without you'. (Completely wasted on a heartless iNTP lol)

lol