[INTJ] The Official INTJ Haters' Thread

[Kasper]

I hate INTJs so much that I took it upon myself to fluff up their nice, neat, organised forums with poor spelling, one line off-topic posts, responses in image form and excessive overuse of emoticons. I didn’t want to do it but I hate them that much I just had to.

*H8’s them all over the interwebs*

 

[Amargith]

I hate it when you guys use your dry humor to pretty much deflate one of my very fun temper tantrums. Simply cannot stay mad when you're giggling.

 

[Moiety]

Actually, judging by this forum's INTJ population alone, I don't see anything to hate about INTJs, actually.

 

[Tiny Army]

Don't worry INTJs! I still love you!


Though because you're INTJs you probably weren't worried in the first place. Nevermind! Keep being awesome!

 

[Tiltyred]

They're boring. They pick the most irrelevant part of any conversation and then argue it to death. It's like they're rabid with the arguing. It's a disease. (It's not "discussing," either, because there's no real discourse -- it's mostly just posing.)

 

[theplacesyoullgo]

I like INTJs a lot. But... you guys never show any emotion, ever. It's frustrating because it's difficult to gauge accurately your feelings.

 

[DigitalMethod]

I like INTJs a lot. But... you guys never show any emotion, ever. It's frustrating because it's difficult to gauge accurately your feelings.

ENTJs show emotions more than INTJs? New one to me. Oh yes, we do this so you cannot gauge our feelings. We know it's our weakness (subconsciously). If you could read us that well then... it would certainly be shocking to most people. Get past the wall, and you'll be fine. Also, try to read body language instead of facial expressions.

I hate it when you guys use your dry humor to pretty much deflate one of my very fun temper tantrums. Simply cannot stay mad when you're giggling.

Hah I do that!
I don't like conflict (especially with loved ones), it's a easy way to calm people down. It's really a way of expressing love.

 

[theplacesyoullgo]

ENTJs show emotions more than INTJs? New one to me. Oh yes, we do this so you cannot gauge our feelings. We know it's our weakness (subconsciously). If you could read us that well then... it would certainly be shocking to most people. Get past the wall, and you'll be fine. Also, try to read body language instead of facial expressions.

I don't know. I know a few INTJs and I'm the only ENTJ I know, so I don't have a great basis of comparison there.

 

[DigitalMethod]

I hate that i can't offend my INTJ, no matter how hard i try. what is wrong with you people?

Can't offend, can hurt.
Most people don't want to hurt others though.

 

[DigitalMethod]

I don't know. I know a few INTJs and I'm the only ENTJ I know, so I don't have a great basis of comparison there.

I'm just basing my assumption upon my one ENTJ friend (even though neither of us show emotion equally). And the function order.

 

[garbage]

ENTJs show emotions more than INTJs?

I know quite a few ENTJs and INTJs, and the answer's been a big fat yes in my experience.. although there's probably not some general rule. If there is, it could be due to the introversion/extraversion difference.

 

[DigitalMethod]

I know quite a few ENTJs and INTJs, and the answer's been a big fat yes in my experience.. although there's probably not some general rule. If there is, it could be due to the introversion/extraversion difference.

True. True.
Maybe both INTJs and ENTJs "feel the same amount", however it just gets outside more since ENTJs are extroverted (generalization I know).

 

[Edgar]

True. True.
Maybe both INTJs and ENTJs "feel the same amount", however it just gets outside more since ENTJs are extroverted (generalization I know).

Pretty much. ENTJs tend to burst out with their thoughts and opinions on things, INTJs tend to be more strategic with what they disclose. So I wouldn't call INTJs more "heartless" than ENTJs.

 

[BlackCat]

A balanced INTJ is an awesome person. As in... In touch with their emotional/feeling side. This goes for any Thinker actually in my experience.

 

[DigitalMethod]

Pretty much. ENTJs tend to burst out with their thoughts and opinions on things, INTJs tend to be more strategic with what they disclose. So I wouldn't call INTJs more "heartless" than ENTJs.

Reminds me of the other thread:

You know you're an INTJ when people would prefer to talk to anyone else in the room but you, and the only time you're ever engaged in conversation is when you're needed to answer a difficult question.

 

[Amargith]

ed111 is clearly not used to having NFPs around
INTJ's are like some of my fav people to try and talk to and I'm sure I aint the only one

 

[DigitalMethod]

INTJ's are like some of my fav people to try and talk to and I'm sure I aint the only one

You try to talk to the people with blank faces who never talk?

 

[Amargith]

You try to talk to the people with blank faces who never talk?

It's fun! There's nothing quite like finding the 'on'-button in those people

 

[entropie]

I dont hate INTJs... cant hate people who are already dead that would be not morally

 

[Mitzy]

theyre just terribly wretched and make me feel gassy
plus, theyre boring.