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[INTJ] INTJs and Sex!

lauranna

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If some INTJs could give their opinion here it would be much appreciated!

Are you generally into kinky sex or normal(vanilla) sex? If you are more into normal sex, then what would be the best way of corrupting you and making you more filthy? Or are you unlikely to change because you believe you know best?!

Thanks!
 

ceecee

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Are you generally into kinky sex or normal(vanilla) sex? Good mix of both but we lean more to the dark side.

If you are more into normal sex, then what would be the best way of corrupting you and making you more filthy? I don't know, I've always been this way. I do want to warn you that trying to turn someone isn't a great idea unless they are open to it. Please proceed with caution.

Or are you unlikely to change because you believe you know best?! I am always willing to listen to ideas and try new things. I've never had an I know best mindset in this area.
 

Oaky

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sx dominant INTJs may be very interesting within their times.
Non sx INTJs may flip the card 180 degrees.

It really depends.
 
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sui generis

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^^ :laugh:

The INTJs I've known have been relatively kinky. :yes:
 

entropie

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whua, Fi ....

no shame or decency :)
 

Jack427

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I like kinky sex. Well....I would say a mixture.
 

andyoranges

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I am an INTJ and I am pretty kinky. My wife is an INTJ and to say that she has vanilla sexual tastes might be generous..........:(

So, I don't know what conclusion can be drawn from that. In our case, both nature & nurture have played huge roles in making her so "plain-jane" about sex.......nothing in my upbringing made me more predisposed to being kinky, but I think it was always inside me and it was really brought out by a chance relationship I had with a VERY kinky woman while separated from my first wife..........and now I can't put the Genie back in the bottle!

Needless to say, this has not improved my sex life with my second wife.........
 

Metamorphosis

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In general, I think any good sexual relationship I've had has had a good mix of both. I find it highly unlikely that any INTJ would be unwilling to change in this department because they think they know best (or any department for that matter). For me personally, most of the females I've slept with are into the dominant/submissive thing, which really requires a healthy mixture of kinky and normal.
 
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