[ENTJ] Persistant ENTJ

[Lindaxo]

Me and this guy had been living together and hanging out and we had been getting along really well and I thought he was pretty mature. I had no idea he was also an ENTJ, and I thought it was cool once I found out. After spending some time alone together everything changed. Somehow I am stuck in a relationship with him because I was scared to hurt his feelings or make things awkward while I was living with him and now he wants me to move in with him and omg I'm 16 and I told him I don't want to be in a relationship until I graduate high school!!!
-reply "It'll be hard but we can do it." I don't know what to do. He pretends that I am pregnant all the time with his baby. He is always telling me how happy he is when I'm around and it feels wrong.
Me and my friends wrote a letter and I'm going to read it to him over the phone or in person, but I don't want to lose him as a friend because thats the only time he acts cool.

 

[Hexis]

"pretends" your pregnant?!

 

[Maverick]

Run!

 

[Butterfly]

Bloody hell....i thought I had problems with weirdos!!

 

[sammy]

Pretends you're pregnant and won't take no for an answer? If he gets even more obsessed, border-line psycho, let one of your parents know. How old is he?

 

[Mempy]

My thoughts were along the lines of Maverick's. Run!!!!

Holy CRAP! Seriously, it sounds like FAR too much, too fast. Why were you living with him? Was it just the two of you? Also, he pretends you're pregnant? Pretends to whom? Your friends? His family? Or do you mean he just jokes about you being pregnant with his baby? Err..

It sounds like he's just putting way too much pressure and momentum into the relationship. You're pretty young still. You may lose him as a friend, but I encourage you to do whatever you have to do to stop the momentum and tell him you're not interested in a relationship with him. The letter sounds somewhat promising. What kind of things does it say?

 

[WobblyStilettos]

eep
I agree that you should just run



very, very fast.

 

[Lindaxo]

LOL yeah! I don't know how it started but it was a joke at first and now he just tells everyone [friends mostly] that I'm 2 months pregnant and doesn't say oh jk or anything.

Heres the letter me and my friends wrote:

I like you as a friend and I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I don't want to lead you on. I really don't like you like you like me And I tried to make it clear, but I just gave up and went along with it. Its just too stressful. I can be your friend, but nothing more.

Memphy: I was staying with my friend for spring break where he lived, but for the last 3 days of my stay we went to his parents house.

philonightmare: He's 17.

 

[sammy]

I like the sound of your letter to him.

Wow, 17 and got it all figured out eh? If he's still persistent after that letter, ask him how he plans on taking care of your college expenses, his expenses and that new baby's in the coming years? And that if he can't realistically draw out a plan for you on how he'll manage all that and still maintain his youthful exuberance for life, that he should get back to you on the whole "living together" thing once he's more settled in life.

 

[meanlittlechimp]

Be careful. There is this fascinating documentary between a love affair between an ENTJ and ESTP. He blinded and disfigured her by throwing sulfuric acid in her face, when he was scorned. And that was just the beginning!I'd tell ya the rest, but I wouldn't want to spoil, it in case you wanted to see it.

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Two ENTJs, in a relationship? I can't even imagine that. Who would control the remote?

 

[alcea rosea]

If he is weirdo your letter isn't straight enough. Put it really clearly down that there will not be a "romantic" relationship between you two. And if he is really obsessed weirdo it is best if you get rid of him really fast beucause he will not accept by being only his friend if he has some obsessive thoughts of you being pregnant.

 

[Kristiana]

He's insane... and for a T type, he sure doesn't sound very rational...

Run away. Quickly.

 

[skip]

Way past time to tell your parents.

 

[Lindaxo]

OMG he moved to another state!!!
I talked to him just now and made it clear that I don't want to be in a relationship again. Problem solved. =]=]=]

 

[LeonardoLestat]

Me and this guy had been living together and hanging out and we had been getting along really well and I thought he was pretty mature. I had no idea he was also an ENTJ, and I thought it was cool once I found out. After spending some time alone together everything changed. Somehow I am stuck in a relationship with him because I was scared to hurt his feelings or make things awkward while I was living with him and now he wants me to move in with him and omg I'm 16 and I told him I don't want to be in a relationship until I graduate high school!!!
-reply "It'll be hard but we can do it." I don't know what to do. He pretends that I am pregnant all the time with his baby. He is always telling me how happy he is when I'm around and it feels wrong.
Me and my friends wrote a letter and I'm going to read it to him over the phone or in person, but I don't want to lose him as a friend because thats the only time he acts cool.

did you kiss or not?

 

[Nihilen]

Me and this guy had been living together and hanging out and we had been getting along really well and I thought he was pretty mature. I had no idea he was also an ENTJ, and I thought it was cool once I found out. After spending some time alone together everything changed. Somehow I am stuck in a relationship with him because I was scared to hurt his feelings or make things awkward while I was living with him and now he wants me to move in with him and omg I'm 16 and I told him I don't want to be in a relationship until I graduate high school!!!
-reply "It'll be hard but we can do it." I don't know what to do. He pretends that I am pregnant all the time with his baby. He is always telling me how happy he is when I'm around and it feels wrong.
Me and my friends wrote a letter and I'm going to read it to him over the phone or in person, but I don't want to lose him as a friend because thats the only time he acts cool.

AJAJAJA that's hilarious.

Here's your opportunity to break someone's heart. TAKE IT !

 

[Edgar]

Me and this guy had been living together and hanging out and we had been getting along really well and I thought he was pretty mature. I had no idea he was also an ENTJ, and I thought it was cool once I found out. After spending some time alone together everything changed. Somehow I am stuck in a relationship with him because I was scared to hurt his feelings or make things awkward while I was living with him and now he wants me to move in with him and omg I'm 16 and I told him I don't want to be in a relationship until I graduate high school!!!
-reply "It'll be hard but we can do it." I don't know what to do. He pretends that I am pregnant all the time with his baby. He is always telling me how happy he is when I'm around and it feels wrong.
Me and my friends wrote a letter and I'm going to read it to him over the phone or in person, but I don't want to lose him as a friend because thats the only time he acts cool.

You sure he's an ENTJ? He sounds like a Feeler.

 

[ENTJ Extraordinaire]

"ENTJs make aggressive, enthusiastic partners who take their commitments very seriously."

*sigh*

ENTJ x a Million!

very very scary, an ENTJ who doesn't have his weaknesses under control

"ENTJs who do not make the attempt to be aware of others, and to value their feelings and opinions, may find themselves in unbalanced relationships, where real communication does not take place."

i hope he learns very quickly, before its too late!

 

[hermeticdancer]

OMG he moved to another state!!!
I talked to him just now and made it clear that I don't want to be in a relationship again. Problem solved. =]=]=]

Breaking up is actually really healthy when it's causing you emotional distress.

Always do what you think is right...

 

[ThatsWhatHeSaid]

Moved. (pun intended)