User Tag List

First 123412 Last

Results 11 to 20 of 138

Thread: NTJs...

  1. #11
    Its time. Cassandra's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Posts
    14,767

    Default

    Mmm...so extra work is no work at all as long as it's fun huh?

    Good...that's a relief

    Time for some drama!

  2. #12
    Senior Member INTPness's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    MBTI
    INTP
    Enneagram
    5w4
    Posts
    2,158

    Default

    You two were hilarious in this performance. *crowd applauds*
    NTJ's are the only types that have ever made me feel emo.
    ENP's are the only types that have ever made me feel like a sensor.


    There are two great days in a person's life - the day we are born and the day we discover why. --William Barclay

  3. #13
    Its time. Cassandra's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Posts
    14,767

    Default

    You've just witnessed the most basic of pillow fights between an nfp and an ntj, sweetheart


    In all seriousness, I *know* how hard these guys/girls work. And as much as they enjoy being in control, I've also seen them come home, exhausted and wanting nothing more than a massage and hourlong sessions of cuddling, potentially leading to more, to recharge their batteries.

    So, I was in all seriousness wondering, if it would be considered more work if I were to draw their attention by deliberately creating chaos which they usually feel compelled to straighten out...something I very much enjoy experiencing firsthand

    On the other hand, I care for them too much to subject them to that if it's not something they would thoroughly enjoy and only tend to out of a sense of duty.

  4. #14
    .
    Join Date
    Aug 2010
    MBTI
    ENTJ
    Enneagram
    8w7 sx/sp
    Posts
    9,133

    Default

    *tosses a pillow at Satine with much love*

  5. #15
    Its time. Cassandra's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Posts
    14,767

    Default

    *giggles and ducks*

  6. #16
    Banned
    Join Date
    Nov 2009
    Posts
    2,390

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Satine View Post
    Do you like a challenge? When you've already got a plate full at work, and you're looking for a hobby to do aside from that, to have something *else* in your life...do you like it when someone at that point demands your attention...demands you to focus on them and deal with them? And I do mean that in a good way. Do you like it if they challenge you to a mental fight, if you will, in which the rewards can be great, but you'd better work for it?

    Or is that too similar to work? Is it in fact more work to you?

    What is it you do need?

    Curious little enfps want to know...
    No, not when we are busy working or introverting and trying to solve those puzzles that worry us daily. There is absolutely nothing worse than losing that ability and being unable to do anything because the Ni world-view is blocked from us by Sensation overtaking the cognitive style set. When we put it all down or to the side, then yes.

  7. #17
    Its time. Cassandra's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Posts
    14,767

    Default

    Even if you're tired?

  8. #18
    Banned
    Join Date
    Nov 2009
    Posts
    2,390

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Satine View Post
    Even if you're tired?
    Especially when tired, because it must be especially valuable to be persevering with issues at such a time where the solution generated will be... pretty rubbish.

  9. #19
    Permabanned
    Join Date
    May 2009
    MBTI
    ISFP
    Enneagram
    6w7 sx
    Socionics
    SEE Fi
    Posts
    25,293

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Satine View Post
    You've just witnessed the most basic of pillow fights between an nfp and an ntj, sweetheart


    In all seriousness, I *know* how hard these guys/girls work. And as much as they enjoy being in control, I've also seen them come home, exhausted and wanting nothing more than a massage and hourlong sessions of cuddling, potentially leading to more, to recharge their batteries.

    So, I was in all seriousness wondering, if it would be considered more work if I were to draw their attention by deliberately creating chaos which they usually feel compelled to straighten out...something I very much enjoy experiencing firsthand

    On the other hand, I care for them too much to subject them to that if it's not something they would thoroughly enjoy and only tend to out of a sense of duty.
    In my experience with NTJs, I'm guessing a big fat no for this, in fact I think you might get the opposite of the desired effect.

  10. #20
    Its time. Cassandra's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Posts
    14,767

    Default

    So only when well rested and otherwise potentially bored, check

Similar Threads

  1. [NT] NTJs and innocence
    By Virtual ghost in forum The NT Rationale (ENTP, INTP, ENTJ, INTJ)
    Replies: 16
    Last Post: 04-29-2009, 11:40 PM
  2. [NT] A Call out to NTJs: Joust with me
    By WithoutaFace in forum The NT Rationale (ENTP, INTP, ENTJ, INTJ)
    Replies: 0
    Last Post: 02-15-2009, 07:39 AM
  3. [Fi] NTJs: how does Fi manifest in your type?
    By Venom in forum The NT Rationale (ENTP, INTP, ENTJ, INTJ)
    Replies: 38
    Last Post: 02-07-2009, 05:08 PM
  4. [NT] ESFP living with two NTJ parents! HELP!
    By defragmybrain in forum The NT Rationale (ENTP, INTP, ENTJ, INTJ)
    Replies: 12
    Last Post: 02-03-2009, 03:13 AM
  5. [NT] NTJs and treating people like pawns
    By Virtual ghost in forum The NT Rationale (ENTP, INTP, ENTJ, INTJ)
    Replies: 48
    Last Post: 01-23-2009, 09:41 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
Single Sign On provided by vBSSO