[ENTJ] Ask an ENTJ!

[MoneyTick]

Dear ENTJ. Give me an example of how you use Te in your daily life. Lol.

 

[Istbkleta]

I can't imagine any of the ENTJs I know wasting time on an online forum - all are convinced that what's important is to complete tasks and move forward.

What's the reason for you being here?

 

[bcubchgo]

I mostly lurk here. I talk more to people I consider true "friends" in real life. Most of the time it isn't worth it for me to wade through pages and pages of people chatting to find the nuggets of good stuff here. i'm only inspired to post once in a while when i have something I think needs to be said.

 

[rav3n]

I can't imagine any of the ENTJs I know wasting time on an online forum - all are convinced that what's important is to complete tasks and move forward.

What's the reason for you being here?

Potentially the same reason why you as an extrovert, are here. So why are YOU here?

 

[Istbkleta]

Potentially the same reason why you as an extrovert, are here. So why are YOU here?

1. You sound ENFP.

2. ENTPs don't have a dom Te to haunt us 24/7 asking what we've accomplished, done and what we have to show for it. It's completely different.

I mostly lurk here. I talk more to people I consider true "friends" in real life. Most of the time it isn't worth it for me to wade through pages and pages of people chatting to find the nuggets of good stuff here. i'm only inspired to post once in a while when i have something I think needs to be said.

I understand. Thank you.

 

[ThatGirl]

1. You sound ENFP.

2. ENTPs don't have a dom Te to haunt us 24/7 asking what we've accomplished, done and what we have to show for it. It's completely different.

I understand. Thank you.

Who says ENTJs haven't accomplished anything? They probably just completed it all before they visited the forum. Unlike SOME people who are here, wasting their time.

 

[rav3n]

1. You sound ENFP.

2. ENTPs don't have a dom Te to haunt us 24/7 asking what we've accomplished, done and what we have to show for it. It's completely different.

Your typing abilities are flawless!

 

[CzeCze]

Jenaphor, did you already answer this question? I am not ENTJ and I is lazy at the moment >_<

How do you act when you are attracted to someone? Do you hide it and act all normal unless you calculate in that NTJ mind of yours that the attraction is worth acting on? Are you extra mean to try to cover the attraction?

If you've already answered this...no chance I can get a link or at least the page number? 19 pages! >_<

 

[rav3n]

Jenaphor, did you already answer this question? I am not ENTJ and I is lazy at the moment >_<

How do you act when you are attracted to someone? Do you hide it and act all normal unless you calculate in that NTJ mind of yours that the attraction is worth acting on? Are you extra mean to try to cover the attraction?

If you've already answered this...no chance I can get a link or at least the page number? 19 pages! >_<

Don't remember the question so it's possible that I missed it and if so, sorry about that.

Ha ha...CzeCze, that's an awkward question! Depends. Let's say I spot someone who appears to be interesting. That's when I sit back and observe, sometimes for a short time, other times for a long time. If he continues to appear interesting, I'll probably find a subtle way to get his attention. If the vibe comes back with no interest, it's time to shrug and move on. Out of sight, out of mind. If the vibe comes back strongly where he takes the bait, it's game on and time to test his mettle!

 

[Istbkleta]

Your typing abilities are flawless!

Thank you.

Too much sarcasm for dom Te. Too much jumping around. Too complicated and emotionally charged communication. Too much "possibly" and "probably", not enough "going to" and "will".
The Te is forced and immature, it is also subordinate to the Ne-Fi.

All the best.

 

[entropie]

dear entjs,

if you imagine you were a busy businessman leading a life in different parts of the world always being on the run. and you have no time for a family but in one special place on the world you have met a girl that grew special to you and she is that kind of girl who offers their services for money.

would you find that sort of drama appealing ?

 

[CzeCze]

Don't remember the question so it's possible that I missed it and if so, sorry about that.

Ha ha...CzeCze, that's an awkward question! Depends. Let's say I spot someone who appears to be interesting. That's when I sit back and observe, sometimes for a short time, other times for a long time. If he continues to appear interesting, I'll probably find a subtle way to get his attention. If the vibe comes back with no interest, it's time to shrug and move on. Out of sight, out of mind. If the vibe comes back strongly where he takes the bait, it's game on and time to test his mettle!

Thanks for answering That sounds kinda like how I expected an ENTJ to answer... So strategic and careful, at least until mutual interest is known.

How about the rest of youse!! Answer ENTJ's! :

"How do you act when you are attracted to someone? Do you hide it and act all normal unless you calculate in that NTJ mind of yours that the attraction is worth acting on? Are you extra mean to try to cover the attraction?"

 

[rav3n]

Thank you.

Too much sarcasm for dom Te. Too much jumping around. Too complicated and emotionally charged communication. Too much "possibly" and "probably", not enough "going to" and "will".
The Te is forced and immature, it is also subordinate to the Ne-Fi.

All the best.

More fantastic insights! No wonder you draw the ENTJs in hoards. I can imagine the convo between them:

ENTJ #1: WTF is she talking about?
ENTJ #2: None of it draws on anything factual.
ENTJ #3: But she's really imaginative.
ENTJ #4: Ha ha...I like trying to figure out...errr...unusual minds.
ENTJ #5: We can fix her!
ENTJ #6: Nah, can't be bothered to waste my time. No return.
ENTJ #7: Agreed. This one's too far gone.
ENTJ #8: Yup, too far gone.

 

[Istbkleta]

More fantastic insights! No wonder you draw the ENTJs in hoards. I can imagine the convo between them:

ENTJ #1: WTF is she talking about?
ENTJ #2: None of it draws on anything factual.
ENTJ #3: But she's really imaginative.
ENTJ #4: Ha ha...I like trying to figure out...errr...unusual minds.
ENTJ #5: We can fix her!
ENTJ #6: Nah, can't be bothered to waste my time. No return.
ENTJ #7: Agreed. This one's too far gone.
ENTJ #8: Yup, too far gone.

Too wild an imagination.

Assuming to "know" others' situations and motivations and choosing this "knowledge" over what people actually tell you.

Having arguments defending your fragile self-image.

Why do you pretend to be an ENTJ?

Do you hate your Fi? Are you trying to impress an NT man and "measure up"? I've seen other ENFPs do it but never understood why.

Perhaps it's curiosity and you can't resist it.

 

[rav3n]

Too wild an imagination.

Assuming to "know" others' situations and motivations and choosing this "knowledge" over what people actually tell you.

Having arguments defending your fragile self-image.

Why do you pretend to be an ENTJ?

Do you hate your Fi? Are you trying to impress an NT man and "measure up"? I've seen other ENFPs do it but never understood why.

Perhaps it's curiosity and you can't resist it.

ENTJ #5: Okay, you guys were right. This one's a goner.

*ENTJs wander off for worthwhile endeavors*

 

[Rasofy]

ENFP:
Jenaphor:

 

[MoneyTick]

dear entjs,

if you imagine you were a busy businessman leading a life in different parts of the world always being on the run. and you have no time for a family but in one special place on the world you have met a girl that grew special to you and she is that kind of girl who offers their services for money.

would you find that sort of drama appealing ?

Nope.

It's like trying to mack with a female bartender. Of course they know how to make themselves "special" to you. They pay their rent by indulging the guy at the club while his wife is in the bathroom, and flirting away with the timid computer guy in the corner.

In their minds we [men] are predictable, ridiculous animals who can rarely be trusted, or worth their time. Likewise, I don't waste my time playing a well-rigged game on the premises of tip/sex money.

 

[rav3n]

dear entjs,

if you imagine you were a busy businessman leading a life in different parts of the world always being on the run. and you have no time for a family but in one special place on the world you have met a girl that grew special to you and she is that kind of girl who offers their services for money.

would you find that sort of drama appealing ?

Did I ever tell you how much I hate the movie "Pretty Woman"?

 

[entropie]

Nope.

It's like trying to mack with a female bartender. Of course they know how to make themselves "special" to you. They pay their rent by indulging the guy at the club while his wife is in the bathroom, and flirting away with the timid computer guy in the corner.

In their minds we [men] are predictable, ridiculous animals who can rarely be trusted, or worth their time. Likewise, I don't waste my time playing a well-rigged game on the premises of tip/sex money.

haha, yes you have very likely a point there

Did I ever tell you how much I hate the movie "Pretty Woman"?

Ah come on !! Everybody loves pretty woman. Tho I must admit I was more in love with Richard Gere in that movie

 

[Redbone]

ENTJs, how did you get along with your parents growing up?