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[ENTP] For an ENTP to come back...

HotpinkHeatwave

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I had dated an ENTP a while ago (during January, dead of winter.)

He claimed I was the first girl he ever really loved.

He was also very young (15 going on 16.)

We had a nasty breakup.

A little while ago, he tried readding me on facebook. I had blocked both of his other accounts (meaning he made a new one.)

He wants to be friends again.


What does it mean for an ENTP to come back to you?

I heard if an ENTP really likes you, they will make an effort to stay in contact with you.

He is also the first ENTP (out of the many I know) to come back to me.

Your thoughts?

Thank you.
 

Nocapszy

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his age matters far more than his type.
focus on that.
 

mrcockburn

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I don't think you should make assumptions. He probably sees no reason why he can't still be friends with you. Which is normal - and good. Move on from the whole romance thing and start over as buddies. (NOT fk buddies)

I'm still friends with most of my exes. I just got home from an ex's apartment, where we were playing videogames and yakking it up.
 

HotpinkHeatwave

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I don't think you should make assumptions. He probably sees no reason why he can't still be friends with you. Which is normal - and good. Move on from the whole romance thing and start over as buddies. (NOT fk buddies)

I'm still friends with most of my exes. I just got home from an ex's apartment, where we were playing videogames and yakking it up.

I'm in another relationship, we couldn't be fuck buddies, haha. But true.. I AM making assumptions. I just think it's odd that he is the one who basically told me to piss off, and now he wants to be friends again. We haven't seen eachother or talked in a LONG TIME.
 

digesthisickness

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he probably just started a new account and wanted to look popular, or whatever, by adding as many people as possible. the whole, throw enough shit at the wall and some is bound to stick, ploy.
 

LeslieFrancs

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I had dated an ENTP a while ago (during January, dead of winter.)

He claimed I was the first girl he ever really loved.

He was also very young (15 going on 16.)

We had a nasty breakup.

A little while ago, he tried readding me on facebook. I had blocked both of his other accounts (meaning he made a new one.)

He wants to be friends again.


What does it mean for an ENTP to come back to you?

I heard if an ENTP really likes you, they will make an effort to stay in contact with you.

He is also the first ENTP (out of the many I know) to come back to me.

Your thoughts?

Thank you.

Well ENTP's believe in an eye for an eye, both in the positive and negative way.

Just give him the benefit of the doubt once and see how it goes. But don't trust him with anything of worth. ENTP's can somehow bend the logic in the breakup and convince themselves that it is YOUR fault, and proceed to "exact revenge" on you.
 

Vie

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Well ENTP's believe in an eye for an eye, both in the positive and negative way.

Just give him the benefit of the doubt once and see how it goes. But don't trust him with anything of worth. ENTP's can somehow bend the logic in the breakup and convince themselves that it is YOUR fault, and proceed to "exact revenge" on you.

Yeah they certainly can. :|
 

guesswho

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He is also the first ENTP (out of the many I know) to come back to me.
Thank you.

What?!How many ENTPs do you know?! I hardly found one.

There's more to a person than the MBTI type...labeling doesn't help.

You have to be interesting for him to come back to you. You can bait him with that I guess. You have to provoke him.
 

Winds of Thor

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I had dated an ENTP a while ago (during January, dead of winter.)

He claimed I was the first girl he ever really loved.

He was also very young (15 going on 16.)

We had a nasty breakup.

A little while ago, he tried readding me on facebook. I had blocked both of his other accounts (meaning he made a new one.)

He wants to be friends again.


What does it mean for an ENTP to come back to you?

I heard if an ENTP really likes you, they will make an effort to stay in contact with you.

He is also the first ENTP (out of the many I know) to come back to me.

Your thoughts?

Thank you.


Loyalty. Maybe he really does like you.

The reason I believe this is that ENTP's can drop someone they don't care about like a brick and never look back or think twice about it.

Ask him why he likes you. And I wouldn't proceed unless or until I had an answer.
 

HotpinkHeatwave

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Funny - Years later, this ENTP STILL comes back to me. Now that i'm older however, I realize its probably just physical attraction.
 

Istbkleta

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I'm in another relationship, we couldn't be fuck buddies,

Why?


I like reconnecting with ppl. Why not? Ppl change, me including.

Why even bother asking on the forum. Is there anything more serious you might be worried about? Violence?
 
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